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• Hello , posted (5 months, 2 weeks) ago
  A friend owes me money ($750) for rent owed because she needed a place to stay because hers flooded…

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• I will be evicted if I can’t come up with $5000 by Tuesday.
  

  Sorry to hear the difficulties ; but there are government agencies to help in these situations in NY I am sure of that one. Even though I dunno the phone numbers to them but I know because I assist in managing buildings in Niagara Falls and Buffalo in State of New York. I doubt that someone online will loan you ; its the whole credibility and not knowing you that makes it difficult. Plus the amount is huge and its recession time specially in the U.S and NY in particular.
  
  Places to help include :
  
  Human Resource Administration , NYC —->http://www.nyc.gov/html/hra/html/home/home.shtml
  
  Read this from South Brooklyn Legal Services regarding emergency aid help for those who are owing rent —-> http://www.sbls.org/index.php?id=65
  
  You can apply for what’s called “one-shot deal” if you are not qualified , or don’t want to receive welfare.
  
  There are also “pay-day” loan online centres that are available to you that you can apply to and if you have income then they’ll loan you up to $1500-$5000 sometimes. you can do multiple of them at once. Check this list out:
  
  http://ca.dir.yahoo.com/Business_and_Economy/Shopping_and_Services/Financial_Services/Credit_and_Finance/Financing/Cash_Advances/
  
  Best of luck
  - written 5 months, 1 week ago

• Hello ,
  

  That’s ok samsung. Last update is that I went to the house on Friday to get the keys and give her a letter that explained I’ll go to court. We spoke and I told her what I was going to do (court) and she started shaking and she was scared to leave and gave me a written note with her signature (and a text to confirm) that she’ll pay on Tuesday the entire full amount. I told her if not then she needs to leave. So here I’ll wait until Tuesday otherwise I will not wait 2 more seconds after that regardless of anything.
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

• hi thanks for your time and help… … i really
  

  I think you should be there for her and she’ll truly see the good side of you. If she’s with someone else , why don’t you look for someone else too ? I know how you feel about her and you’ll feel that way for a while so that’s why you need to check your options out there. I went through the same thing my friend , wanting to be with girls that had another guy and being rejected by girls. Be confident in your qualities and character , not your looks because it changes everyday.
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

• Hello ,
  

  Same here. Some people find it easier to screw over a friend than a stranger who can have no sympathy toward them.
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

• Hello ,
  

  Thankfully someone else thinks the same thing. Sometimes I think something is totally missing here because it’s so unbelievable sometimes I don’t even believe myself about this. It’s not that I won’t help anyone again but I’ll be more upfront about things like this right at the beginning.
  
  I don’t think she’ll go through with court because after the ultimatium she got scared (her tone was that she is really worried about this) and how I quoted parts of the Tenant law and printed the rest for her. Two main areas that I showed her: that she’s responsible for rent as well, and that she’s responsible for her own expenses as long as I was NOT the cause for them. She might say oh I had this and that to pay for …..but I think that usually rent is a priority.
  
  How is she going to be renting out somewhere else if she does the same thing to landlords? is she going to say to them that she was sick but yet working ?….that she’s not feeling well yet she was at the bar with friends? or that she’s not feeling well and she’ll talk to them later and never respond back for days? what landlord would take this ? to have a roof above us is more important to take care of first.
  
  Am I missing something …. LOL cause I am going crazy LOL.
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

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