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• I don’t know where to even begin!
  

  I will take the advice and see what happens, but again thank you!
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

• I don’t know where to even begin!
  

  Thank you. Totally right I don’t have anything to lose and after all I do love her…
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

• I don’t know where to even begin!
  

  [quote Quantum_Spirit]Sometimes people need to explore their options. That’s understandable in long term relationships from a young age.
  
  What you need to determine is how good the relationship has been aside from the breaching of trust.
  
  It’s also important to realize that people are still changing at the age of 19. People change lot’s all the way to 30. It’s really difficult, or impossible to predict how the world will change people in time. That’s part of why so many people get divorced. One of the two changes and no longer wants the relationship.
  
  So, I would suggest taking your time, unless you feel that she is family material. Just use your judgment. That’s the only one that counts in this department.[/quote]
  
  Aside from everything else it’s AMAZING! I mean sex is good, she cook, she is wife material and I know she would make a great mother when the timing is good. We’re both just finishing college and we really do want a family together.
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

• I don’t know where to even begin!
  

  So are you suggesting I take time for myself first then counseling or counseling and trying to find the real me at the same time?
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

• I don’t know where to even begin!
  

  [quote littlenick][quote anakm200]Why? Because we both cheated? The fact that we both are at fault and admit to it doesn’t mean anything? I am willing to work it out and I’m sure she is as well…is that really something I should just walk away from?[/quote]
  
  Yeah, that’s fine and dandy. However the pain and misstrust does not go away! Think about it! Smell the coffee![/quote]
  
  Not even with getting help and trying to rebuild the trust that was lost?
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

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