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• Dating:
  

  When you meet a new girl, hint to them that XYZ will probably start showing interest in them, that it is her pattern to do so. That she has already done this with other girls you have shown interest in and that after the relationship is over, she moves on.
  
  Possibly if they expect her to do that, they will not be very interested when she shows up.
  - written 5 months ago

• 34 years old and all alone, is there something wrong?
  

  Go out and meet new people. This site will give you some ideas about how to meet new people:
  
  http://www.meet-people.ws/
  - written 5 months ago

• I’m in a bit of a weird situation at the moment.
  

  Question is, what do YOU want? Do you want a serious relationship with the guy you are dating? If so, why risk it on taking a chance with the other guy?
  
  If I were dating a girl and I had the feeling that she was seeing someone else, I would dump her immediately. Is meeting with this guy worth this risk for you?
  
  If it is, then you are not really serious with the guy you are dating and you should let him know that.
  
  If it is not, why take the chance of pissing off your guy?
  
  First decide what you want and then set your priorities from there.
  - written 5 months ago

• my parents abuse me to the point where i cut myself
  

  You do not have long to wait. It might seem like forever, but it will go by quickly.
  
  Why not get a summer job in order to save money for college? This will keep you out of the house for most of the time and you will not have to see them so much. Also, the extra money will come in handy when you are far, far away from them. Even working at a gas station or McDonalds will be a much needed break.
  
  Just take one day at a time and before you know it, it will all be a memory…..
  - written 5 months ago

• Hello, Im 24 years old and I feel a bit lost right now.
  

  I suggest two things:
  
  1. Go back and finish the college degree.
  2. Find a mentor. This might be a Professor in college, someone you used to work with, a friend of the family. Have them advise you about how to find direction in your life. It is much better to get advise from someone you know and respect than someone you do not know (online).
  - written 5 months ago

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