[quote Hello Sweetie :)]
but for you i suggest you stand your ground and insist he either dates you or forgets about anything physical. dont be forced into anything and be aware of him ‘dating’ you just so he can be physical[/quote]
Thank you… I think you’re right. I’ve realized that I am just torturing myself by hooking up with him and making out in hopes that it can turn into something more. I think I have to realize that’s not the kind of person he is… My justification for this is is that He’s really, really good at it, and it’s really, really fun… Which it is… In the moment. Then afterwards, it just sucks because that’s all it will ever be. We don’t even hang out anymore like friends.. it’s just the benefits.
The thing is… I want to tell him that he has to date me or forget about anything physical… Hopefully he says that he understands and that he’ll date me… But if he doesn’t … I do want to keep hooking up… Because like I said… it’s fun, and he’s good at it. It’s just that I won’t go much further… Basically.. I prefer to date. But if he won’t then i’ll keep hooking up… SO I guess my next question is: how do I say this to him? How do I let him know that I am not comfortable with doing this if we aren’t dating?
If his answer is yes, then great! but if his answer is no, how do i say that i’m okay with hooking up still? - written 1 month ago
It honestly sounds like she needs to make herself feel better about her relationship by rubbing it in your face. I don’t know how good of friends you are, but that doesn’t sound like a real friend to me. I would watch my back if I were you… - written 1 month ago
Stop hanging out with him. Do not put yourself in that kind of situation anymore. If he asks why, tell him. You guys are broken up, and that’s the way it should stay. He has no right to do that to you! - written 1 month ago
He’s probably just nervous! Sometimes people change in relationships because they’re nervous. You guys will eventually get the point where you can have comfortable silence. (: Don’t worry. - written 1 month ago
You have a point… I guess it wouldn’t hurt anything going, but it would probably hurt more not going. But what you said about me not wanting to break up with him, but not thinking it’s going to last… I feel like I know that I don’t like him enough now, so I probably will lose feelings by then.. But or maybe it’ll be the opposite, and I’ll end up liking him more… I’m just so unsure of my feelings right now. And I know that if the roles were switched, I would want to know. :/ - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago