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• Asking my boyfriend to Not go to turnabout? posted (1 month, 3 weeks) ago
  My school is having a spring fling. What’s a really cute way to ask him to NOT go!? I just w…

• My favorite teacher is probably very disappointed in me, What do I do? posted (5 months) ago
  ?? Hello. I go to a very prestigious boarding high school. It is very difficult to get into, and eve…

• How to let a guy know that he needs to be committed to me ? posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  There’s this guy that I dated a while back.. And we talk and flirt a lot… but he’…

• I make my boyfriend nervous, in a very good way? posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
  Uhmm, so I went to see cars 2 with my boyfriend… And when he asked what I wanted to see, he s…

• How much are Fall of Troy concert tickets usually? posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
  I know they aren’t touring now… Although I would like to know when they are.. But when …

• How do you make a guy get excited….? posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
  I wanna know if i do that to my boyfriend.. Because it’s not like I check.. that would be wei…

• How to convince my parents to let me date? posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
  Hello! I am 14 years old… and I really would like my parents to let me date. Please, donR…

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• He wants to hook up, but won’t date me: only Friends with Benefits?
  

  [quote Hello Sweetie :)]
  but for you i suggest you stand your ground and insist he either dates you or forgets about anything physical. dont be forced into anything and be aware of him ‘dating’ you just so he can be physical[/quote]
  
  Thank you… I think you’re right. I’ve realized that I am just torturing myself by hooking up with him and making out in hopes that it can turn into something more. I think I have to realize that’s not the kind of person he is… My justification for this is is that He’s really, really good at it, and it’s really, really fun… Which it is… In the moment. Then afterwards, it just sucks because that’s all it will ever be. We don’t even hang out anymore like friends.. it’s just the benefits.
  The thing is… I want to tell him that he has to date me or forget about anything physical… Hopefully he says that he understands and that he’ll date me… But if he doesn’t … I do want to keep hooking up… Because like I said… it’s fun, and he’s good at it. It’s just that I won’t go much further… Basically.. I prefer to date. But if he won’t then i’ll keep hooking up… SO I guess my next question is: how do I say this to him? How do I let him know that I am not comfortable with doing this if we aren’t dating?
  If his answer is yes, then great! but if his answer is no, how do i say that i’m okay with hooking up still?
  - written 1 month ago

• Why does my friend keep bringing up my ex?
  

  It honestly sounds like she needs to make herself feel better about her relationship by rubbing it in your face. I don’t know how good of friends you are, but that doesn’t sound like a real friend to me. I would watch my back if I were you…
  - written 1 month ago

• My ex tried to take advantage of me :(
  

  Stop hanging out with him. Do not put yourself in that kind of situation anymore. If he asks why, tell him. You guys are broken up, and that’s the way it should stay. He has no right to do that to you!
  - written 1 month ago

• Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and hes still acting like we’ve been dating for a day!
  

  He’s probably just nervous! Sometimes people change in relationships because they’re nervous. You guys will eventually get the point where you can have comfortable silence. (: Don’t worry.
  - written 1 month ago

• My boyfriend is a senior but I don’t want to go to prom…
  

  You have a point… I guess it wouldn’t hurt anything going, but it would probably hurt more not going. But what you said about me not wanting to break up with him, but not thinking it’s going to last… I feel like I know that I don’t like him enough now, so I probably will lose feelings by then.. But or maybe it’ll be the opposite, and I’ll end up liking him more… I’m just so unsure of my feelings right now. And I know that if the roles were switched, I would want to know. :/
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago

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