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Hey, I think she’s not stupid or weak on memory and most likely she remembers your offers very well. Give it a time and wait a month or two until she express herself, talk to her about anything else in the meantime and deepen your relationship on the friendly level… don’t swage it, act as intelligent young man and at least you’ll not lost her as a friend. And if you’re low on funds (and esp. if you’re both romantically based), you can think out lots of nice, a little crazy stuff… buy a packet of flour, few eggs, a chocolate, cream… bake her a cake and you can devour it somewhere on grass :) But as I said… and as you said… don’t hurry up. And sorry, i’m falling asleep and writing like a savage :D

Jasně, já to opravdu chápu. Jenom mi vůbec nejde do hlavy, vo co sakra de? Ale jo, tak k tomu napíšu alespoň pár blábolů, stejně tu česky nikdo neumí, že… :) No je to tak?

Congratz! :) I’m working 16 hours a day this week, so don’t have the intellect for thinking out meaningful messages in English, but it’s a duty to express my joy for your success… when this madness ends, I’ll open a bottle of wine for you :)

“hey whats up” doesn’t sound like an apology… Well, try fb and don’t bombard her much, maybe she’d never thought about you as someone other then just a good friend and now she can be deeply confused, esp. girls in some age (I dunno how old you two are). I don’t wanna make any false trust here, but I now the one, who had to think out similar situation for almost quarter a year without any respond :)
I have two advices for you this time: 1) Really good friendships can’t be broken this way… 2) You’ll never find anyone like her again, but you can find someone even more closer to you who won’t tantalize you so long ;) and perharps is better in other ways…

Everything from ethno and brass bands, through rap, reggae, rock, gore metal till my snarky boss… along Stratovarius I love e.g. Radiohead, Victor Wooten jazz band, Soad are good and solo Serj a bit better :), these days i’m more focused on few czech ska bands… And don’t be tired, it’s infectious :)

Wow… never until now and just can’t realize why :) It sounds great

90s alternative, soad, pink floyd… that’s much rather the way how to become depressed instead feeling better :)

When some sad mood catches me, songs by Stratovarius(Glory of the world, Paradise, Against the wind…) are always helpful, but the lyrics seem to be quite primitive I think. Well it doesn’t matter if you’re not from english-speaking country and don’t perceive it… but that’s not your case I suppose. They’re more about the music than lyrics.

I created my own interphase world. When I cant sleep, I just close my eyes and open the door, walk down five steps into a room 15×70 feets high in the mountain cliff with a giant window on longer side. On the right there are some flowers and vending machines, on the left side are couches and huge lcd tv, where I playback my ideas for a while, then I go to the lift and slowly ride down the cliff with counting down the remaining distance. If I’m down in my endless jugle which is there and still not sleeping, theres a roller coaster - riding on it is mostly guaranteed way to fall asleep. Also there is socalled “universe-disc” - a great stone where I can lie and let the universe fill me with peace and energy - this is good way how to fall deep into sleep and feel quite more fresh in the morning… also there’s a subterrain tearoom, but I only visit it when I want to think about the meaning of life before sleep :)

Well, Max is absolutely right… but there are many other ways how to work through the internet to earn some cash. I don’t know your occupation, but if you know more foreign languages, you can look for some translation job offers, or if you’re web creator or any kind of programmer, you can surely find at least few offers for external cooperation. If you’re good in writing, try to sell your piece in some magazine… Just search the web… :)

A teď česky prosím, hebrejsky tu nikdo neumí :-D

Four days you say? So I think the best time for your brief “apologize” is right now. Just send it. If you’ve lost her yet, you can’t make it worse and if you haven’t, it can’t happen by saying sorry. But be prepared for everything and primarily - don’t loose your honest, I know lots of people who were in situations very similar to yours who fell in panic and started to act like real idiots without any respect and understanding and mostly that was the final point, when they’ve screwed up everything. But you seem to be a clever man ;) Just act wisely.

I was having a vacation last week and I always try to stay out of the internet. Maybe she’s done talking to you, but maybe she’s just scared, confused or she has some other wise reason why she’s acting this way. If I were you, I’d just write: “Sorry”. Nothing more and then wait for the answer. I think that’s the best solution - you can’t make it worse, just better, because you’re not saying only sorry with the word but also “I’m still waiting for your answer”, “I feel bad about this situation and your absolution will be helpful” and you rapidly raise the possibilty of early response…

When I was in my current job new, I worked in very similar time stress. And the situation with my gf was also not much different than yours one. On my side there was an effort to be with her all the time I’m not working, no other hobbies, no other friends, just she and the work. But she had to understand, that when I’m in job I’m 150% busy and can’t delay by texting her… and she did. We were surviving this for about one year, then I won some trophy for fine fruitage at work, so I asked some more salary, nothing more then excuses happened, so I’m working now since 7am until 4(sometimes 3:30)pm… for about 2 next years yet and nobody’s still angry with me.

Well, where’s the catch? Especially with the work, why couldn’t you stay there? Because of some kind of fear, laziness or just bad choise of your occupanion? Without knowledge of detailed reasons there is no efficient help…