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ok alot of you are getting off the subject, weed was just one of the options. and personally weed is harmless. its not for me but i dont look down apon it. some like it some dont just leave it at that..
but my advice is to get some new friends.. people that you would normally hang out with, may be interesting to see what others do for fun.. like the whole “yes man” thing be open minded.. dont judge people and go with the flow, if its sometihng u dis agree with then find new friends and try new things… you never know, the people you meet might be looking for the same thing you are.

if you truly honestly love jesus and you are a christian u should know that jesus wouldnt you to harm your self in a way. so lets just start with whats bothering you? you said your wait for these feelings to pass, what feelings? if something is upsetting you enough to want to die talk about it. i promise that what ever it is, there is another person that is or has been the same situation. please respond soon, i dont know u but the thought of someone being that upset that they dont wanna live any more really bothers me. so get back and i’ll see if theres any advice i can give you.

hey bro, well i gotta agree with lyneee5. reading your post has definetly made a difference in my day aswell. and your not alone. physical maybe but there are tons of us that feel the simular or the same way as you. ya i am a dude to so its kinda akward to say your cute, however u obviously do have some good qualities and talent.. the piano for one, most young people dont kno how to play it. always noticed how passioniate you are in writing.. if what u wrote impacted 2 out the 4 who read this you must be doing something good. best advice i can give you is dont be so hard on yourself. look for what u like about u and be cocky with it. being conceited a lil every once an awhile is ok..

well first thing im sorry that u have to go thru that situation. i know getting ur heart stomped on sucks.. what worked for me is having friends. i went out and did things i loved to do befor i was with that person.. plan out fun trips or just lil nights to go out and just have fun.. that u have something to look forward to doing and keeps your mind off him.

of coarse alot of people rely on the quik rebound hook up. there is a chance that you’ll get over him for the moment.. but i dont suggest it cause chances are when u do “hook up” with a random person you’ll relize its not the person thats really on your mind and it will make u more upset.
but it doesnt hurt to get out there and meet new people. especially guys. not necessarly to hook up with but to make new friends and meet new people. with meeting new people maybe that will give you a chance to not think about your ex as much.. well i hope gave u a couple ideas, and hope everything works out for u..

famous qoute~ “a broken heart still beats the same”

hey, well i thinks itas cool that there is an attraction between u guys before seeing eachother.. honestly its more important than phyiscal attraction..but personally, and this is just my opinion, i think u should just wait it out.. cause it really sucks when u see to much of someone and dont really have the chance to miss them.. in your case u cant miss what u havent had.. but the antisapation of seeing her is a good feeling. and the same feeling is returned.. sounds like u guys should keep talking and when the time comes for u guys to meet in person, u already be close and not have the akward feeling of the first date.. well hope it does all work out!