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Cool Dude whatever Party Harty then!

I happens to the best of us.

Thank you for the advice but neather of thoes are viable options for me.

Eveyone deals with emotion diffrent maybe she had to turn away because she didn’t want to break down in frount of you. Don’t feel bad you sound like a good friend she will come around when she is ready.

elaberate what is the underlyning question?

Take you back by taking the time to do the things that make you happy.

Look if you don’t want to get peoples honest opinions don’t ask the question! Futher more all I was trying to get across to you is that the work you would do on the stupid thing would give your mother something to be proud of and brag about and maybe just maybe she would lay off of what you are doing. If you are within a year of drinking age then your an adult and should start acting like one rather that acting like an A**H*** to the very people who you are asking advice from! Grow up and quit being a gerk to people who are on this sight for the right reasons. I was again just trying to point out the fact that in the real world and in life there many angles to every situation you should omen up your mind a little and look at the bigger picture.

I was just stoping by to say Hi and see how you were doing? Did you do anything fun for the 4th.

I am janae I have the same problem. So if it would help I am here if you ever want to chat.

yes I have, and sometimes it has been a message or emotion that was always there in my head but it didn’t make sence intell I heard it from an outside source.

the truth is always to best its out on the table now and the ball is in her court so to speak. It is refreshing to see a young adult who has confidence and a sence of self. Don’t ever lose it. If it is meant to be it will.

I have to agree with Ni you need to talk to someone who has more resorces when it comes to things of this nature. How ever I will say don’t let the events of your past dictate the person you are today however learn from them so that you can better your self. Try to remeber that we only have one life and you are a beautiful person who deservies to enjoy day of it. Although there are situations that are not good there are also wonderful moments. And last try to stay positive for no one but your self.

look it seems that you have your mind set. Now don’t get me wrong I love to have a good time to but I also have own a moped at one point and they are a blast not to mention it will give mom somthing to brag about to her frends and when she is doing that she isn’t as focused on what your doing. Plus under age drinking although fun has is’t on set of posible problems. Been there.

Hay its just a game don’t stress I have never heard of the game but if I did know I would tell you. I hope you figure it out.

In life I have learned that only you can change you. I mean you realize that there is a problem and thats a start. Just learn from your past mistakes live everyday to its fullest because you never know when it might be your last and stay positive, becaus positive thoughts lead to positive actions which leads to a positive productive life.