we’ve only been together 18 months, and it been a tough 18 months for us both. our relationship has been very good and very easy…but I’ve been sick and he was made redundant. he says he wants us to be togtether but he needs to take time to sort out his life first..I have a good job and a settled home, but he doesnt. it just feels like it all went too fast. I just hope if he has some space he realises what he’s lost and makes an effort to get it back. if he doesnt, then I guess I am better off. though it sure doesnt feel that way. - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago
I have sat down and talked with him, but he was so confused about everything and I was so upset. We have agreed to take time and try and see our way out..meet up soon and talk again, but I just swing from one emotion to another and can’t think straight. am scared I am going to lose him. - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago
no, not at all. it was his proposal, and his idea to get married on the date and in the way we planned (abroad - which is why his family wouldnt come). he was so excited by it all, and says he got carried away planning the wedding without actually thinking it through. I know he loves me, but he is so proud and wants to do everything by the book. - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago
