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• I’m havin the “Girl-Girl” relationship problem! posted (2 years, 10 months) ago
  Tis “lady fren” s abt 10yrs my senior & also my colleague. She has gorgeous look & looks …

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• so umm ive been considering the fact that i think im a lesbian.
  

  You didn’t mention in detail why you are scared when travelling? Do you mean when you are travelling alone or with friends?
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago

• so umm ive been considering the fact that i think im a lesbian.
  

  I think I have the same problem as you, ie, more attracted to girls. I’m in my mid 30s and I just don’t feel comfortable w guys. Maybe during my childhood days, I often see my dad scolding & beating my mum when they quarrel. I only have 2 elder bros and no sister. You won’t believe that I don’t even have a boyfriend or relationship before. Maybe my expectation are high & my mum always remind me to be careful w guys etc. Later, I realise I get to like pretty woman who are older than me. And I’m willing to satisfy & give them whatever they want! But now the problem is, I do not know how the other party(girlfriend) feels?! I do not have the courage to let her know my feelings for her as I realise she is dating a man and she ever told me she has many boyfriends! I really don’t know what to do?!
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago

• Hi,
  

  Hey, I tot I’m the only 1 whos not “straight’ & havin the “Girl-Girl” relationship problem! At las, I’m sharing the same problem as U! Tis “lady fren” s abt 10yrs my senior & also my colleague. She has gorgeous look & looks much younger than her age. I hv 2 elder bros & don’t hv any sisters & maybe thats why I wish to have a elder sis & companion. Over the past, I used to argue w her over small matters. Few mths ago, I tried to spend more free time lunching & talking w her. Finally, I noticed she has more trust on me & our relationship r getting better. Recently, my fren told me dat she saw a “not bad looking” guy picked my “lady fren” up after work!! Suddenly, I was stunned & surprised as my “lady fren” ever told me she prefers to remain single & stay alone by herself, cos she doesn’t trust marriage! But the other end, shes dating guys! My fren consoled me & said maybe its her bro or bro-in-law?! I dun hv the courage to ask her whether s she dating guys or not?! Cos I’m afraid she will get angry if its not true or I may get even more hurt if its true! Could anyone help me regarding the abv? Thks.
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago

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