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• I’m an older adult female that’s so depressed I don’t know what to do.
  

  Hello Starshine3,
  
  I am now learning that us females tend to do that:give our all to the other person when we are in a relationship!
  But the secret to a healthy relationship is to give ourselves all, instead of the other person. I used to buy gifts to my parter that I would never dare to spend that much money on myself, I’d feel guilty if I did.
  Another thing that women do is to give things or do thing to please the parter, that they did not ask for. Even though we say its from the heart, we always expect something back, either the same gesture, the same commitment, the same gift or a reaction of appreciation that fills our hearts. But we gorget…He Did Not Ask For It…So we get sad, disappointed and frustrated if we do not get what we want.
  Start loving yourself, give yourself everything!!!
  Men appreciate us more when we are so full of life and self love. And you only gain from it.
  You have to love yourself so much that you will not need someone else to complete you. Whoever will come to your life will share of the love you are already giving yourself instead of filling your void.
  This way, whatever happens, you will always have your primary source of happiness:Yourself, your heart(unbroken).
  
  All the best to you!
  Virtual Hug!
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago

• Does he take me seriously?
  

  Thank you everyone for your support and honesty!!!
  I needed to hear that… i really appreciate it.
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago

• Does he take me seriously?
  

  I am aware that I cannot change him, But I also know that I can also change myself in a way that can affect my relationship positively. This is what I’d like to know how to do.
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago

• Please, please, please.
  

  Thank you sooooo much for sharing.
  It made me cry, I was feeling so down and hopeless. I really cried like a baby!
  THANK YOU
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago

• You are fabulous!
  

  I was feeling so sad, so down…
  This video made me cry, made me feel happy, hopefull…
  Thanks
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago

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