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• M.D.VS D.O. posted (2 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I have an interesting dilemma in terms of the responsibilities, schooling, and residency involved, …

• Trying to become aware of what’s going on with the world. posted (4 months) ago
  I’ve come to a realization that I have no idea what’s going on with the rest of the wor…

• For all of the doctors and anyone else who might have some insight on this. posted (5 months, 1 week) ago
  I’m considering going abroad for medical school, particularly to UAG, in Mexico, now I’v…

• My own personal Bat Signal. posted (5 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Smellf this is for you. This isn’t a request of help, but a way to inform my friends on this …

• I am Abraham posted (5 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Blessed and cursed to live in this world Many people have crossed my path, Many people who have push…

• To Want as to Be Wanted… posted (6 months, 1 week) ago
  This is what spawned an rather interesting, emotion that’s been arising within me since a few…

• Nursing Question: What do I do next? posted (8 months, 3 weeks) ago
  OK here’s my situation, I’m planning on pursuing a degree in Nursing, to obtain experi…

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red1263's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (6 votes) Happiness is a lie.
  

  How can you ever expect your life to get better when you’ve already given up? You are 19 freakin’ years old, and you already know how life works out! Someone said technically you’re not a kid, I disagree, YOU ARE STILL A CHILD! Who are you to say that God has been toying with you this whole time? Do you even realize how many people are abused and have no one to cry to? You have the internet, you have voices of people, even if it’s online. I can think of numerous people who cannot.
  
  You are just feeling angry, frustrated, depressed, etc. But these things are just that, Emotions. Happiness is an emotion. So you cannot claim one exists and not the other.
  
  You say your friends are happier than you are, Well it’s obvious because you’re comparing yourself to them! Of course the grass is greener on the other side, it always will be! The point is that you need to focus solely on yourself, you lost your strength, endurance, your faith, and most importantly, hope.
  
  If you want your life to get better? Find what you lost. A Saint isn’t someone who has never fallen, a Saint is someone who has fallen and kept standing up.
  
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by ~AGAPE~, Sans, Kitten_Ciao, ❤♡♡❤, Angie :), Gee Ess Dee 2

• (3 votes) I hate myself so much right now!
  

  “Dude, You already have everything you need, it’s just a matter of putting in the effort”
  
  Lovely post, Although in terms of what lies inside of me, I’ve always seen 2 sources of strength, and although they are different sources, they overlap, and I think that’s what constitutes who I am.
  
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago – voted for by Chunkydore, ❤Phoenix Reins❤, DarkSnow (Gone Away)

• (2 votes) i am a very girly boy and every one calls me gay because i hang out with girls and the way act what can i do to act more like a boy?
  

  As far as my knowledge is concerned, if you’re comfortable with who you are and have confidence in what you do, That’s the manilest thing you can do, Don’t think about what THEIR definition of manly is, think about what YOUR definition of manly is, is it a complete jerk to all of the women, able to crush a beer can on his forehead and able to hear the ocean coming from his ear? or is it a kind person who’d put the well-being of those he cares about before his own?
  
  This is your life, my friend, you decide!
  
  - written 11 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by DarkSnow (Gone Away), Miss.Confused.15.

• (2 votes) Hope,so many poeple..understand what i want to mean …
  

  I can only say that I am a child that should not have lived, and yet rather than kill me, my mother decided to continue having me, so here I am. While the rest of my siblings are realizing their mistakes, I’m still taking care of her. I’m fully aware of her hardships and I’m using that to help myself become a better person.
  
  - written 1 year ago – voted for by DarkSnow (Gone Away), Dr. Ralph

• (2 votes) I would like to welcome our newest member!
  

  Hey hey! Welcome to Help.com, the Online equivalent to the Hotel California!
  
  you can check out but you can never leave!
  
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago – voted for by emmylou2u, Dagoth Ur (S. M.)

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• Poll: What country are you from?
  

  US-Born with Mexican Blood
  - written 1 day, 19 hours ago

• My best friend has told me she needs some space from our relationship.
  

  Wait, aren’t you the young woman in this post?
  
  http://help.com/post/545711-i-am-a-young-woman-in-my-mid-twenti
  - written 1 week, 2 days ago

• Ok I need to make friends I am going crazy being alone
  

  [quote Angel227]@red1263 That’s really good that you have faith in humanity. :)
  I dont know what to say but Good Luck![/quote]
  
  Heh heh, well, just consider me a friend as well.
  - written 1 week, 5 days ago

• Ok I need to make friends I am going crazy being alone
  

  [quote Angel227]@red1263 that’s nice, but you know in fact there are not many people like that.[/quote]
  
  That is exactly why I am one who is still willing to have faith in humanity! Because no one else will. Gandhi said, “Be the change you want to see in the world” Well I’m going to be a good man with honor and trust in others, so that others can learn from this example and hopefully do the same! Even if I’m the last one to do this, I’ll stand for what I believe in.
  - written 1 week, 5 days ago

• Ok I need to make friends I am going crazy being alone
  

  [quote Angel227]@red1263 that’s actually true, bcz most people says that I am friendly. But then why I don’t have friend. And when I am talking about friend I mean a real one. the truth is that I expect too much from friends.[/quote]
  
  Well now a days, most people are ’shallow’ friends as in friends so long as they can provide a service for one another. For someone to be a true friend, they should have no problems doing you a favor and not asking for something in return. In all honesty, I don’t expect anything from anyone, makes it that much more special when they surprize me with a response like “Thank you.”
  - written 1 week, 5 days ago

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