I’d go out with him… you never know what the future would bring, all you have is the present. I mean, why wonder for the rest of your life what would have been if only… Just get to know each other better, maybe you’ll turn out good friends, if nothing else. You may also casually talk to him about what you’re thinking here, so you won’t “lead” him on if that is indeed your worry. - written 4 months, 1 week ago
[quote Anonymous]yea,since all of my friends are much taller & thinner,I have never had self confident about my shape…. :(([/quote]
well, start hanging out with some other people too, you may get a huge bust of confidence when you’ll see that a 70kg same height girl is superly happy to where she is at! really. - written 4 months, 1 week ago
dear, I’m same size as you and i get a lot of action! men were always running around me, it still happens but now i’m married so i’m not interested anymore. it’s not the weight, it’s the confidence that gets people want to hang around you. and that comes from loving yourself first. start working on that, you may discover that without self love, you will find some other thing “wrong” with you even if you get at the size you want. You may start by looking in the mirror everyday to find something you really love about yourself and keep practicing that. Also try to hang with people that have true confidence - you can recognize them by their kind and friendly attitude. The other one would just continue to bring you down so they can feel better about themselves too. - written 4 months, 1 week ago