it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. you should be true to the real you and let that shine proudly… there is nothing better than a person who is proud of all that is that makes them different. and there is nothing more interesting than someone who is different and who embraces that. imagine we were all the same things would be so so dull!! you can be a girly daddy’s girl and still be a hard core girl ridding a chopper… that makes you exciting and spontaneous and an individual. i say go for it!!! - written 1 month ago
This is a difficult one. i am so sorry this happened to you. You have invested a lot into this relationship - three years is a long time. The only thing you can do is wait. time is the only thing that will make this better. slowly things will begin to look good again, the pain will gradually leave you and eventually you will be able to move on with your life. she either doesn’t deserve you or doesn’t value you as much as you valued her if she left a three year relationship for another guy. move on and be happy… and the only way to do that is with time. go thru the motions, feel the pain, deal with the anger, cry and eventually you will be ok again. good luck - written 1 month, 1 week ago
I wouldn’t trust this. Ok so maybe trust your man but I would not trust her after all you have told us. She sounds so manipulative and maybe he might think of it as just friendly but as you said you know what she wants and she will anything to get it! I would say you can not trust her with your man. He needs to understand that this makes you uncomfortable and is damaging your relationship, your trust and causing a stress between you two. They have a history and you are the present, he needs to choose. if he wont or if he makes excuses to still be in contact with her you need to follow your gut. if it doesn’t feel right… its not!!! - written 1 month, 1 week ago
