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  Sorry I didn’t look at my email till now….hope it is still on time. examples of chemic…

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• (1 vote) still a starving artist.
  

  Its possible that your panic attacks have something to do with your lack of income…
  
  I see what you are saying about your husband being your only friend…I would start by looking at galleries or older women artists who have studios and are making it. Start by working for very little or no pay…just get your foot in the door and start hanging out with successful people. Soon enough if you work at it and are trustworthy they will eventually give you a job and you will be around art and artists.
  
  I started working for artists (successful older artists who nurtured me and turned me on to make money) while in school. This enable me to skip the growing pains from when I was 20. I was hanging out with people who really had answers and I didnt waste time with “friends” my own age and hanging out. 90% of the people I was in school with were just into drugs and lacked the responsibility or knowledge to do something worthy.
  
  Hang in there and if you are into art then immerse yourself with people and businessess that are successful. And since you are already married then you don’t need to waste your time with “going out”. I am not a doctor or know your particular condition but I bet you anxiety will gradually dissappear as you do what you are supposed to be doing…and if you are indulging in drugs/drinking then tone it down.
  
  You are still young and battling with hormones and not having children is not easy.
  Having a child could help you but only if you have the money and support from family… otherwise it can stop your career on its tracks.
  
  I would like to take this time to say a prayer for you…may you find people who you can nurture and nurture you…may you find peace in your soul that everything is just ok and you realize that you are but on a journey that unfolds itself asyour life passess…may you be inspired to make wonderful art that wakes the soul…may you have good fortune to realize and see the great things around you…
  
  Where I live there is free medical treatment and psychiatric help for artists. I have noticed that this has been very helpful for some artists to be able to talk about their problems with people who are not interested in their money.
  
  I hope I have not rambled too much and something I say can make some sense…
  I was in your shoes at your age…in hindsight things were not as bad I thought and
  it was just me I had to get over with…good luck and keep reaching out.
  
  - written 5 months, 1 week ago – voted for by Weasehl

• (1 vote) Is there really such a law written somewhere that says “separation of church and state”?
  

  People should realize that its all up to interpretation. Just like drugs, some people have legal drugs, and the rest go to jail for having illegal drugs, or if you are priviledged or have a good lawer to help you interpret the law. All laws are subject to interpretation and use to your advantage. If you think that some ridiculous plagerism like the US constitution is going to help you you are dead in the water.
  
  I helped people who are in prison to exercise their religious rites but it was made practically impossible because unfortunately people who are not from the three main branches of the SAME religion (Jews, christians, and Muslims)are not given ANY rights.
  
  If your religion does not match with any of the three above you are screwed. And it is reminded to us in the dollar bill and in the 10 commandments and practically everywhere we look. Jews, christians, and muslims have been trying to erradicate each other and everyone else for a long long time
  
  But we are fu**ed. We do live in a society dominated with good intentions but disastrous consequences.
  This country was founded by criminal smugglers, European aristocratic wannabees,
  and the few like (supposedly) Jesus, Ghandi, King, etc. who want real peace end up
  killed as the sheep watch and hide in cowardice.
  
  Ask a native american what he really thinks of the 10 commandments…some have learned to assimilate to survive, just like they have to learn the language and walk the walk…
  Ask a black slave desendant how he feels when he sees a confederate flag.
  Ask a homosexual, etc etc etc
  These symbols are but of control and to remind us who is in control.
  
  - written 10 months, 1 week ago – voted for by Xeno Dragon

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• still a starving artist.
  

  Its possible that your panic attacks have something to do with your lack of income…
  
  I see what you are saying about your husband being your only friend…I would start by looking at galleries or older women artists who have studios and are making it. Start by working for very little or no pay…just get your foot in the door and start hanging out with successful people. Soon enough if you work at it and are trustworthy they will eventually give you a job and you will be around art and artists.
  
  I started working for artists (successful older artists who nurtured me and turned me on to make money) while in school. This enable me to skip the growing pains from when I was 20. I was hanging out with people who really had answers and I didnt waste time with “friends” my own age and hanging out. 90% of the people I was in school with were just into drugs and lacked the responsibility or knowledge to do something worthy.
  
  Hang in there and if you are into art then immerse yourself with people and businessess that are successful. And since you are already married then you don’t need to waste your time with “going out”. I am not a doctor or know your particular condition but I bet you anxiety will gradually dissappear as you do what you are supposed to be doing…and if you are indulging in drugs/drinking then tone it down.
  
  You are still young and battling with hormones and not having children is not easy.
  Having a child could help you but only if you have the money and support from family… otherwise it can stop your career on its tracks.
  
  I would like to take this time to say a prayer for you…may you find people who you can nurture and nurture you…may you find peace in your soul that everything is just ok and you realize that you are but on a journey that unfolds itself asyour life passess…may you be inspired to make wonderful art that wakes the soul…may you have good fortune to realize and see the great things around you…
  
  Where I live there is free medical treatment and psychiatric help for artists. I have noticed that this has been very helpful for some artists to be able to talk about their problems with people who are not interested in their money.
  
  I hope I have not rambled too much and something I say can make some sense…
  I was in your shoes at your age…in hindsight things were not as bad I thought and
  it was just me I had to get over with…good luck and keep reaching out.
  - written 5 months, 1 week ago

• Ok um I’m going to the movies this weekend and well me and my girlfriend are planning to makeout.
  

  i am just wondering why a movie theatre? It seems like a little bit of exhibitionism.
  Do you want other people to watch?
  
  But yes it comes naturally… and you will know pretty quickly if you are compatible or not. Sounds like fun…the best thing of it is you wont get pregnant.
  Good luck
  - written 5 months, 1 week ago

• still a starving artist.
  

  hello, I am sorry about yur situation. I am a little confused about your husband…is he not your friend?
  
  You need to take art to a level like that of any other business. Do you work full time at it? Are you producing artwork that is marketable? What kind of artwork are you making?
  
  Why do you need a friend that you can see every day- what is up with your husband?
  
  My wife found a group of artists that have a communal studios. The good thing is that she has found people just like her who also want to make artwork. The bad thing is that she treats it like a social thing and is not responsible enough to treat it like a business. So she is happy about her find but she is still not making any money. The artists that are successful work at least 8 hours a day and start by charging little and then they work their way up.
  
  
  Find artists or galleries that are successful and go work for them…even if you have to work for free or not much just to get your foot in the door…Most good gallery jobs are taken by people who were there as apprentices and then ended up with a cool job.
  
  Most successful artist that I have met have degrees and teach or have a job. It is very difficult to depend on art sales for a dependable income…sprecially if you have a family.
  
  Good luck
  - written 5 months, 1 week ago

• Manager/supervisor question
  

  I’m with Anonyous… What is so crucial about her being late? Some people are great at what they do but cannot judge time very well. How else is she performing?If she is “the best that you have ever seen” then are you willing to settle for a mediocre employee that is on time?
  Also, a lot of times the mediocre employees who know how to kiss a*s and behave in front of others, and follow the rules end up being the bossess or in charge…
  You need to look at the big picture and see if she is worth it or not..
  You have not stated what kind of work this is. Good luck
  - written 8 months ago

• Help, im an illegal alian liveng in the u.s..
  

  Hey i hope this can be of help…You are definitely not alone. It is not your fault that you are in this predicament.
  
  Like a lot of other people you need to look at this as a challenge. If you want to educate yourself then you can do this on your own. All you need to know is to read.
  If there is something specific you want to study then go to public libraries or the internet and read all about it.
  If there is a specific company you want to work for then offer yourself as an apprentice to get your foot on the door.
  You might have to work and do things illegally until you can solve your problem,
  but there is always a way.
  You do not have a terminal decease and things can get better.
  If you just want to go to college because everyone else does then that is not good enough. College is not all its supposed to be. For most people its a real waste of time and they are there pretty much just to party.
  hard work is what sets us appart. Dont have children early, they will just make your life more difficult- unless you need to be inspired and you want to struggle harder.
  The hardest part is the mental part…are we american? are we mexican? what the Heck are we? do we fit? what are supposed to do?
  We all go thru this. This is normal. Just do what you can and do it as best you can.
  YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING BY ASKING!
  Carefully look at the answers you are getting- the solution is there somewhere.
  Dont dwell on the people who are against you- we all have someone that doesn’t approve of us.
  Good luck.
  - written 9 months, 2 weeks ago

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