What’s up? you may not remember me, but I was talking to you about your issue. Well, you never responded back and I really would like to help. Anyway, if you need someone to talk to, my aim is Poeismyhoe
Hey Rose,
I’m so sorry to hear that. Dying is so easy, but living is so hard for those left to pick up the pieces.
As I said before, for someone to be driven to suicide, a number of different things have to be going wrong in their lives. You had remained in touch with him as a friend and that is a whole lot more than many other girls would have done. He could have confided in you but chose not to.
The family of the bereaved always look for somebody to blame; for somebody to be the scapegoat…Especially with the case of suicide, I’d imagine. They look for reasons to link in other people. They want to direct the blame somewhere and they obviously can’t blame him, because that would be blaming the victim. I have been through that and it hurts, really it does, because you actually start believing that it was because of you that the person died. Understand this as what it is: the grieving process.
Shout me anytime sweety. Things will get easier; I promise.
Love n hugs,
Farah :)
P.S. If you want to search helplines and resources, then google “survivors of suicide” and a load of them should come up.
Hey Rose Thorns,
Thanks for adding me as a friend!
How are things with you? Did you manage to find out any new info?
Thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers,
Love n hugs,
Farah xx
P.S. If there’s anything I can help with (eg helpline numbers, advice, anything) please shout me anytime… :)
I am sending my Christmas greetings already, just incase I don’t see you here before the big day, I am sure I will but I would rather be safe than sorry!
So….
Hope you have a Fabtastic Christmas and new year!!!
hey again lol! no i just felt bad coz i was was blaggin n u had problems of ur own to worry about, sorry i do it all the time, its sorta y i dnt open up anymore. yeah i’m ok, n thnx same here!