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• I have a friend I have known from when we were children. posted (3 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Some people mark him as odd, and in a way so do I. However, deep down I know that he is a good per…

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• How do I help my son, he has been diagnosed with panic attacks.
  

  I suffer from them as well J. I know this is a hard lesson for your son to learn however he must learn to take control. The world is a chaotic place where he, you and me have little power over. However, he does have the ability to control his own mind that is his and his alone. He must be a believer in that. Make a phrase that you both use. I know it is cheesy but I say, “Calm heart, gears stop turning.” and in-vision a clock’s gears completely still. It’s all your head right? So why not use the same mentality to fight it?
  
  A panic attack to the victim is sort of like a train being derailed. It’s a chaotic, devastating, abysmal catastrophe that can not be avoided. However, it’s less like a train wreck and more like a brain misunderstanding which is something that with willpower and a calm spirit can be completely stopped. Introverted thought is my trigger, and I know that my hypochondrias is the cause. What I do is I first trained myself to recognize what kind of thought causes them to happen. You should sit down with your son and calmly discuss what is going on. Teach him to recognize the signs of one starting. Then teach him to breathe in and let out slow and to meditate and clear his mind and focus on something he loves or his saving phrase. When a panic attack is full blown it a horrifying experience and may induce another just by remembering it. The key here is to find the fuse and snuff it before it reaches the bomb. Do this enough and you can live medication free like myself and forget even what the “bomb”’s explosion is even like.
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• What is the best option for suicide?
  

  [quote affermative][quote Singer_Scarlett]Why would you do that? You’re an artist, I can tell after reading a few of your posts. I think the world needs more people like you. Don’t give up on yourself, I think you’ve got talkent.[/quote]
  
  
  but death is pleasure for me. the Pain is comfort for me.[/quote]
  
  Suicide is a selfish, self serving action. Please, you think you are so miserable and beyond help? If you really felt that way you wouldn’t be on help.com, you would be lying in your bathroom on the floor with a 6″ exit wound, body limp and lifeless waiting for those who do love you to find you. No, I think you want attention. I have given you too much already.
  
  To answer your question, gun. Instant resolution in a cold brilliant flash - the period at the end of your sentence but a comma to everyone else that suffers at your loss.
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• I live in Maryland the other night my daughter was
  

  Your daughter is 18 she is legally an adult. It’s time to share some of the responsibility of owning a car with her even if she is still living at home. Dr. Ralph had it right, get the car registered and have the updated registration with you when you go to court. If this is her first offense ask them to reduce the fine. Chances are they will make you pay court cost, original citation for suspended registration, and perhaps if you are lucky they will drop the lane violation.
  
  I would ask your daughter about that in detail. If she was changing lanes without leaving the distance required by your state or driving to cause suspension officers are more than likely to suspect a possible drunk driver. They will not think twice about pulling anyone over for it. I wouldn’t write it off as a crock of poo just yet.
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• I have a friend I have known from when we were children.
  

  In the end Usurper is right. I tend to have unrealistic expectations of others. I know everyone isn’t a saint, I know I’m not. I guess I just expect for some people to grasp the obvious. There was one time we went out to a friend’s house and he started on some stupid perverse tangent and everyone just looked at him, as if to beg him to just stop talking. He just kept on. Later that evening I get the phone calls about how creepy he is and how he isn’t welcomed back. Knowing someone for so long you begin to sympathize with them. However, there comes a pivotal point in any failed relationship where you grab onto whatever ledge is left and pull yourself out. It’s time for me to stop expecting him to change, accept who is, and stop thinking the old version of him will come back. He is who he is. I am just saddened that he introverted into another person.
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• i have tried in vain to install DirectX after uninstalling DX10 because my Graphics Card didnt support it so i got frequent crashes.
  

  Try a program called Crap Cleaner, there might be still tags in the registry.
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

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