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• Awhile back, my teacher was talking to us about this place you could go to literally kill yourself?
  

  it’s Euthanasia,a word derived from greek which means basically “A good Death” - seriously interesting! i think you’re talking about the DIGNITAS clinic, which is based in switzerland (i believe. it’s somewhere in Europe) and offers euthanasia to terminally ill people.
  
  like Courtybubble said, sometimes painkillers just don’t cut it. I know that if i’m ever in the same position as my grandma was, i’d want to be euthanized - just so that i could be remembered properly, rather than dying in pain and unable to speak… still, we are all entitled to our opinions! and legalizing Euthanasia is difficult as sometimes people take it (and the law) into their own hands…
  
  hope that helped : D
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• Did I do the right thing?
  

  i think you did the right thing. removing yourself from another potential conversation about ‘why he didn’t want to be with you’ was probably the best idea, for definite! you have to think of yourself rather than him - he’s the ‘jumping ship’, after all. don’t feel guilty: what you did was mature and didn’t indulge him. As long as you’re not hurting from this, what happened was perfectly fine and you came out the other side in the best way possible!
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• I think I have a sexual orientation problem.
  

  I so often feel like a gay man trapped in a woman’s body! I think i idealize their relationships to the point where it’s really something i want.
  
  maybe you have the same problem as me? Heterosexual relationships sometimes weird me out (i.e make me want to be a gay man!) because i don’t like the idea of being… dominated (whether sexually or just relationship-wise) - i could be wrong but i feel like every man, in some way shape or form, isn’t going to like ME trying to be ‘the dominant person’.
  
  so yeah just because i know what you mean: perhaps that’s it? if not, i’m still happy to listen haha.
  
  p.s i’d never get the surgery either, i just …yeah, that’s just how i feel!
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• I just wanted to say.
  

  I used to be in EXACTLY the same position as you!
  
  to be honest i believe in ‘internet love’ just as much as i believe in any love by correspondence: make the effort, keep in touch, and yes, in a way, you might really love him: finding someone like that is so rare that you should embrace it as much as you can! you just need to know that ‘Reality’ is sometimes different - make the effort, get to know him ‘for real’ and yeah, it’s a great foundation. good luck to the both of you, and be careful for the sake of care. :)
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• Magic, Real or just wishful thinking?
  

  I think magic exists! just not in the way Harry Potter uses the word: there’s a lot of magic, for me, in people, in where we are… hate to get the spiritual crap out, but the world can sometimes be really…. magical. :)
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

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