ur into the wrong kinda girls. look, if ur totally into this girl but she doesn’t notice you, she’s not gonna notice until u turn urself into someone ur not…in ur example, some idiot party animal who yells at sports games and walks up to girls saying, “Hey babe, wanna go out some time?” Either that or she suddenly snaps and feels that she’s into u. woohoo great if she does but hey…u gotta be selling like a salesman to do that. do you really want to be like either of those situations?
in all truth, it’s not u…and don’t try to be like “the party animal” cuz u just come off as….an idiot. but those guys do it and chicks dig them…why can’t u? the thing is u’ve already been labeled and classified into a norm…when u try to step out of ur norm people get uncomfortable. u sound like an ok dude. be happy with who u r…not for what u feel people want from you.
ok, so what the hell(or heaven) do u do then? chicks dig these “party animals” right? wrong. ur generalizing based on your limited exposure. there’s a large variety of girls out there…freaky ones…kinky ones…scarey ones…nice ones…mean ones…it’s all in ur definition of likes n dislikes. right now u’ve grown up exposed to a very small variety of girls and of that variety u naturally look for admirable characteristics. sure, they’re attractive….but so is bait to a stupid hungry fish. i’m not calling u stupid but let’s use it to put the situation in perspective.
are u the kinda guy that wants p****** regardless of the other stuff or are u the kind of guy that wants the whole package in a girl? well, bait on a hook is like p****** with sh*t on the side (excuse my language, girls, dont get offended…if u think this comment applies to u…there’s something wrong with u)…and a whole package is like getting a real catch. if ur just into gettin p****** then u got no right complaining…but if u want a real catch then u gotta get over these pointless situations where a guy shows u up and takes the girl u like. sure it burns…and maybe it’s a kick in the balls to ur ego but hey, u got qualities rite?
if these guys that get the girl’s attention are as frivolous as u make them sound…they ain’t got nothing solid to work with. u on the other hand…it sounds like u think u got good qualities. let them qualities shine. no, don’t get full of urself…what i mean is be more talkative. expose ur qualities. girls will talk to u if they’re comfortable with u and if u got anything to talk about they will chat it off the wall and bak….girls just tend to like a guy more when she can talk to them…but that’s not enough. u gotta spark her emotions too…how u do that is up to u.
so if u talk to these girls, they’ll totally see ur awesomeness rite? no. not exactly. i classify girls into 2 groups…the kind that look for the perfect boyfriend…and the kind that look for the perfect husband. 2 very distinct differences there mind u…and if u don’t know them…u’ll know sooner or later.
basically it reflects their attitude towards life and many other things that apply. the girls that look for the perfect boyfriend tend to be very materialistic and judge on stupid things that really don’t matter too much in a guy but heck they have a good time with those guys….for a while…and then there’s the girls that look for the perfect husband…not meaning dayem they wanna get hitched right here and now to the first man that walks their way, don’t get me wrong. they date around for a decent man. what i mean is they look for qualities that are good for husband material. these girls will look deeper into a guy and admire characteristics others overlook. generally, they have longer HAPPY relationships and just longer relationships in general. sounds good rite? well, this is just a very broad way of looking at things. bottom line is, it doesn’t sound like u are the “boyfriend” type…ur the “husband” type. so u’ll more likely appeal to the girls looking for the “husband” type.
so check it out, if u find that ur talking up a storm with girls…and u jangle their emotional gland here n there…but still get nothing…then heck ur fishing in the wrong place…get out there and try somewhere else before ur bait get stale. - written 2 months ago
