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hey hey :P
im all good, got my best mate in the world up here for a few days so the craziness abounds!

dont worry. im alright.

im ok. how r u?

dood, i know. im fucking things up in a most epic way right now. ill get there though. i just gotta get me through the next few weeks and ill be right :)

hey :)
well im doin it a little tough right now, to be honest, things are falling apart at the seams a little, but i had a big blub and a rant here just now and already the sun is a tad brighter, so thats positive :)
im glad things are settling down again for you, i cant imagine how much this must have rocked your world when it happened, but i can plainly see that youre going to be totally fine, i hope you can too :)

awh house hunting , hum sure isn’t easy , so will you be looking to house/apartment share? me yea i am ok , getting there you know things settling down getting back to some kind of normality with the support my friends and family, working away which is great distraction i love my job.had a break from hospital visits so kinda on a even Kiel , looking forward to xmas. so ya finished your assignments and exams?

heya :P
im all g, getting ahead of myself again and looking for new places to live back in my hometown, bit of a freakin mission from where i am now thats for sure!
how you doin?

:D happppyyy birthdayy honn!!!!!!

haha. well thats good. im glad you got out a little. well, this morning i woke up at 5 went running till 7 and it felt o good haha:) then im gonna clean a little bit cause my place is a mess. then im going out with my friend cassies and were going to lunch and probably gonna hang out for a little while. last night i went out to a party. wasnt really having that much fun so i came home. and yesterday i slept all day cause i was very tired for some reason.
hope you have a good day. ohh!!!. and friday night i went out on a date. :).

well that is pretty darned shit isnt it.
you should make anonymous accounts on those dating sites and tell everyone how crap he is:P
or try reporting to the sites contacts that he is a known HIV spreader. grasping at straws i know, but i really wanna get this guy!
if i was anywhere near wherever you are, nothing would give me more pleasure than to kick his ass lol

heyyy. i need to talk to u its urgent. but i cant do it on here. email me when u get the chance becca_j1515 @yahoo.com no space of course.

hun. im sure she doesn’t have it. get her tested if it will make you feel any better. hun maybe you could have ur daughter stay at a friends house for a while until u can get yourself together. i mean just get out and relax for a while. you really need it.

i know. thanks hun. but you got a lot going on now too. how you holding up?

you know wharts best for you becc, i’m here any time you wanna talk , i’m so so sorry your going through this

ya im gonna get rid of it. 11/20

oh my. that guy is a fucking jack ass. im so sorry hun. im really sorry. i wish this didnt happen to u.

i cannot imagine how incredibly hard and earth shattering what you are going through is. i doubt i could go through it without really getting revenge on the guy who did it.
do the doctors etc know who he is? surely they could take action on your behalf without outing you?

hii. not much. just school and work. how are you?

would it be possible for you to immigrate somewhere else where that is not the case?

hey, no im from NZ, and there have in fact been cases here where guys like that, who knowingly infected people, have been sent down for a hell of a long time.
prejudice is a cunting thing when it comes to justice huh.
i guess then, living your life to the fullest and not allowing him to take any more of your time and energy will be the best payback!

im pretty bad. but ohh well. lol.

tell me all about it. ill get on as soon as i can to read it. loveyou! hope your good.:)

oh come on, hes already given you this illness, are you going to let him have you running scared the rest of your life as well?
youre ILL, not a freak, who cares if people find out!
waste his ass!

oh. im sorry.

oh. im sorry.

heya, one more week of exam stress then im done :)
you should definitely take that mofo to court, get him locked up for as long as you can girl.what a douchefag he is, id have punched him square in the nuts haha

uhm, ive not encountered him to e honest, but i know hes come into mod consideration a few times, so theres a hint haha.
im doin well, last couple of weeks have been ultra stressful but just makes you appreciate the relaxation more haha.
howre you doin?

that’s great

If anything happens like that or you see it somewhere else pleaaaaaase don’t hesitate to use the report button again

Just one question:

Do you want to straighten things out or do you want to keep shouting insults at me?

Based on your reply, I shall choose how to answer those questions. Whilst I’d love to explain myself to you, I’m not quite ready to get banned over it if you’re not going to listen.

Well I won’t comment on that because he watches my shouts

I am excellenta

I have removed the comments and talked to the user who made them (returning your report)
and I am sorry every once in awhile we get meanies

pretty good. u?

nope not really..
im glad u had a good time.

aw im sorry. i hope u had a good halloween.
im good. works fine. schools fine.

fine u?

heya, yea, not too bad, still sore but gettin there, more worried about exams atm than back lol

thanks hun:)

im not suffering ill be fine really. i just need some rest, if i have it for any longer ill go to the doctor. ill be ok. and when i need to talk dont worry your gonna be the person i go to:)

i know but i just cant help but cry. whenever im alone i just burst out into tears i cant help it.ya i still have the flu but im not gonna go to the doctors it will go away soon.

well.i feel like shit. (sick wise)
i cant stop crying i know its now my fault but i feel horrible and i feel soooo bad. and i dunno i just cant even explain all i want to do is cry.

lol. thanks. u do make me feel a lot better. just talking helps.:)

thanks hun. aww i love you lol:) in a non weird way

i know i can talk to you. but you have a lot to deal with and im not gonna bother you. i hope u had a good day,

idk = i dont know.
believe me, theres days im like what the hell am i doing here too haha

oh. =/ that stink.
im fine. hun. stop worrying alright. you have enough problems.
but im gonna take a nap and try to get rid of this flu. talk to you soon.

yea, idk, im kinda just tryin to get through this week and first exam then deal with it, got a lot to do and not a lot of time left to do it in lol

bloody sore :/
doesnt seem to be getting any better, i stopped taking all the pills today coz i been completely out of it lol, but its fairly painful still

yea she was with her dad the wkend he has his own issue’s he doesn’t support financially and he lets her down, but i know he loves her, i just wish he’d get his life together.ouch but thankfully he will recover physically. how are you dealing with loosing your friend is really sad

oh. thats good. well that your daughter is ok not that she didnt know her. so what about her dad. is he in there at all? sorry if you told me before.

well he broke his leg in 3 different spots and he had a pretty bad concision. hes doing a lot better now. a few bruises. but he will be fine.

aw hun. your doing so good. hows she dealing with your mom?
drinking smokeing such bad habits. its so good that you havnt!
aww hun im so proud of u.

im fine.

hun im really sorry. once you get back to work and get back to normal things should ease up. hows your daughter handling this?

dont worry ok. im fine.