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Did you ever find out anything? Are you okay? How’s life treating you?

[quote Anonymous]I don’t and I don’t want to alone, I am scared to mention it to my ex, I don’t want him to think I am lieing or trying to trick him into coming around. I guess I will find out tomorrow.[/quote]

Well who cares what he will think he’s your ex. He’s not around anyways. If you seriously go to the emergency room he will know somethings wrong. Well, please keep me updated on what’s going on. I hope it’s all good news. :) You could just call him and ask him if he wants to go to the doctors with you. You deserve support during this time no matter what the outcome is. You obviously aren’t lying about what is going on with your body. If he accusations to the sort then don’t be to threatened, men have different approach to handling the news especially from an ex. It’s hard to take the possibility of being a parent especially when you are not with that person anymore.

I know it’s not something you want *to* go through again.

I know it’s not something you want go through again, but you have to be strong and go no matter what the outcome is. You can deal with the emotions later, the main thing to worry about is your health at this moment.

The fact is if this is happening right now they will be able to tell you if you are pregnant, if you had a miscarriage, and if you aren’t pregnant. So if you want to know we can’t tell you and you should be more worried about knowing than what your ex will think. It wouldn’t hurt if you got him to take you to the doctors. Just go to the doctors.

You should go to the doctor. Do you know your pregnant? Did you take a test? You might just be having complications. You want know unless you go to the doctor. You should be taking prenatal vitamins because your body goes through a lot during pregnancy. Woman have had all those symptoms while pregnant and had healthy babies. Every woman is different, but for the safety of you, you need to go to the doctors. Your body needs vitamins because the baby is taking all yours. Hope for the best hun, but you should be at the ER right now. I wouldn’t care about medical bills, I would care about my possible child and myself.

Actually I was kind of forced to leave I had no choice. Me and my husband started fighting. This time I wasn’t going to take it so I started fighting back. I was so angry at this point he always picked on me and not once did I ever try to stand up for myself. Well I decided I would so I told him I was leaving. He took my car keys and my phone. I was trying to get them back. He started to hold me back and push me and I just picked up a chair and threw it at him. This just made him more angry. He was about my size maybe a little more muscle, but he started dragging me to the kitchen. I had no clue why and my only guess was to get something sharp. I wiggled my way out of his arms and ran. I had no shoes, no car, no phone. The point is to not leave when the violence is taking place because who knows what a person like this would do. I wouldn’t even let him know. You have already told him you wanted to leave, I’m sure you have plead with him why. You need to do it safely and quietly like anonymous said. If my husband would of been bigger than me I probably wouldn’t of been able to wiggle my way out of his arms.

How long ago did this happen?

Are you bleeding heavily?

You believe you had a miscarriage? How are you not sure of something like this? Are you in shock? Did you go to the doctors?

Yes, but I don’t think that my ex would have went through with any of the threats, but it didn’t make it any less difficult to leave. Fact is you shouldn’t be forced to stay with someone, it should be by choice and the fact that he’s trying to control that shows his character. I know everyone has already said be careful, but I will say it again. Be careful. You will make it through this, but definitely don’t stay with him he’s on a one way street to destroying his own life and trying to take you with him in the process.

Your poems are very mature and they will only mature as you get older. You should be sure and keep them so you can see the changes. What a great gift to have.

2012 was amazing for me too, I’m going to be more giving in 2013. :)

I like the part “it hurts too much to fly and fall again.” I think we have all been there and it really speaks to a heart that has been broken or a person who has had it all and lost it all.

There’s so much to gain when you lose everything. I always think of what Job said in the Bible. When he had lost everything he said something like “out of the mothers womb I came naked and naked I will depart.”
His attitude is a humble one. Be humble my friend.

Blaise Pascal wrote “Man is equally incapable of seeing the nothingness out of which he was drawn and the infinite in which he is engulfed.”

It makes you wonder why we care so much for the materialistic and facades of this world. What in us is much deeper than all of that and we should worry more about our inner being rather than let this world try to take that from us. We came from nothing so why do we care so much when these small things in life get us down? Now I’m not saying not to care, but I’m saying to care in a way that makes you come out stronger rather than letting this world continue to take what can not be taken away. You will find happiness, just keep hoping and dreaming.

You defined what a house is. What do you think a home would be if you could dream one up? Think long and hard. I would like to hear what you believe a home to be.