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sorry but cannibus is a big deal.it is a drug and so are cigs. they are both drugs so they are bad. To smoke at all is bad. one “simple”, as you may think, drug like cannibus could lead on to other stuff, I know people who do these things, it not a good thing to get into. she needs to stop, or she will lose everyone in the long run, it could lead her to death. sure it could just be alittle fun for her at the moment,but perhaps not later, ask her why she does this. tell her parents, tell her what could happen. If it were me and she did not listen to anything I told her, I would tell her that I was not going to be her friend anymore. If you can help, do do so, but if you are afraid, get somone else to help her and try to show you are they but try to stay out of it if she turns gets annoyed coz drugs can really mess with people

I do tend to jaber don’t I? lmao x

Anyway there are loads of people in this world, there is bound to be some people you would get on with. Took me afew years, but now I have the best friends around who care for me, and they wouldn’t talk behind my back, like my old one did

ask if she wants to hang about with you, tell her how you feel, sounds cheesy doesn’t it lol. but I did that at one time, she changed for a while but then went back to being the same.I give up on her now, I dont need her.Awful thing to say, but if she doen’t need me, why should I need her? If she cares, she will change to make you feel better :) but if doesn’t..then she aint a person worth knowing. trust me, I prefer working on my onw than with other people as they are all the same, at least in my year anyway, they are people that try to fit in with each other, even if they aren’t evil bullys, the are sarcastic and do not care.If show you care and they dont do the same back I wouldn’t bother with them.

but if you read stuff like that for so long you will end up believing it all thinking you have all of the problems, a little exaggeration obviously, but still

Hey I hope your friend stops what she is doing, find the reason for her doing this to herself, does she think no one cares, or people that are special do not care, is she sad for someone dying. She must be sad, or angry for some reason, the best way to find a solution is to find the problem, then fix it.Most importantly, like other people have said, do not just keep this to yourself. I think she trusts you, and is basically asking you for help. So help her, she told you so she wanted you to know. Good luck

I once thought that I had that

I’ll tell the truth that I used to cut myself, not for long though. But I did that for a reason, I felt like the people in my life did not care about me. I was depressed and wanted to cry alot. When you keep thinking about cutting yourself over and over and over again, you eventually dare yourself to do it, and you concentrate on that pain and blood, away from that pain of sadness. She’s sad, you have to find out why. There is always a reason for someone doing this. People say people only do this for attention, and really, they are right. I did that because 1 I couldnt stop thinking about it, 2 I thought no one cared about me, I thought that if a did it then if they saw it they would worry, then give attention and show they cared, and ask what was wrong. Of course this worked, but I got into a load of trouble and felt like the dumbest person in the world. When she stops harming herself, even if it is burns, she will most likly feel dumb for it too. Does she feel alone, she may not feel like that because she told you, she has you to care.

life is what ever you want it to be. Life can be a box of chocolates, or life can be the hell you make, perhaps not what you make it, but someone does. No one will ever know what life is- really though its just energy. so don’t worry. There is nothing anyone can do. I have been thinking pretty much the same as you recently, about things and questions that we will never know. And also about beliefs, although you may never know if your beliefs are real, it is comforting to believe. Not believing in anything and thinging about these things seem to scare me, it’s like we are here, surrounded be nothing. You could think nothing created us and we are all alone, but on Earth we’re not. Y? we will never know. But it does not seem to matter as much when you see things that are beautiful in our lives, like a baby coz it doesnt matter. All life is beautiful, what matters is what you do with it :)

Love her? as long as she wasn’t pushed into that, I don’t understand y she would be lioke that. I’ve felt angry with boys before, believe me, but I never really made lies about them. I bitched behind their backs, but that was it, and I didn’t lie.
The thing is she is trying to make you feel bad and make you worry, you have to show her it is not working. Do not worry,whoever believes her is an idiot, just think that, don’t try to find out the rumours, just let her waste her time.
She probably feels not very good about herself, confidence, so she has to take it from, unless she is just trying to make it perfectly clear that she will never go out with you again.

Is it the thing where you wwant what you can’t have? If you know you could get him, you don’t want him, but when you know you can’t then you want him. Just leave him alone for a bit, then try to appologise and stay friends, but I wouldn’t try to get back with him just incase the same happens again, coz you would have less chance of getting back to being friends again. In the long run that is what matters :)

how and why? As long as you realise you cannot be a superhero as they fictional characters from people’s imaginanation, I think you will be ok. Why did you want to be a superhero? to make sure the world is ok? Or to get the attention and feel you are capible of things to make you feel special, that you are not usless, everything has a purpose you know, and you will be a special person already. And you don’t have to worry about the world, you could help some people, but not everyone.Does this help or make any sense? lol
And you know what? I bet your sister does not hate you, she’s your sister, your family, your family is the best friends you will ever have. I have never had a brother, but my friend has a brother and they fight and sometimes take the micky out of eachother, but deep down if my friend was in trouble, he would be there to help, and visa versa. I bet if you asked if she cared about you then she would say yes. and even if she didn’t she would just not want to admit it, as it shows she is soft. how old is she? I know you are 19

you killed someone?

do you still think your fantisies are true?

hmm.. maybe that meant you had to take a different path in life :)

wow %100 for me, wow if only my exams were this easy lol