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I read online the safest method of ear wax cleansing was peroxide and water.

ah see you know what I mean then, my pregnancy now I was on the IUD and when I called the hospital to see if it caused some sort of hormonal change, to make a pregnancy test say positive they said wait your pregnant on the IUD, are you sure?? So it will happen, that I know from experience

I have 2 children and am pregnant now, what I can say I learned about this, since they’ re all made it thru a different form of birth control, things happen exactly when they are meant to, no matter precautions or who may not want it to. It will happen at exactly the right time.

I think distance has a major role with that, with today’s economy moving for a possible job is pretty risky, especially if you have a family and not safety net in the new location

honestly, I live in a very small town and when I asked, I got it just happens, but this is the same doctor who told me all growing up all of my illnesses were due to allergies. I don’t take the doctors word for much anymore.

its not that noticeable, like you only see it when you look in the actual hole. its kinda like a ‘Q’ with the little line in the O part, and when I do try to clean it it seems to bug her, but as a mother my child having ear wax is like nails to a chalk bored

18 months.

do a story about something you know nothing about, like changing sexes, so you have to put yourself out there, ask , and go thru the struggle that someone would who was doing so.

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[quote Anonymous][quote simplyincreadabl]Wow what a horrible world we live in. Why can”t people help people?[/quote]How can you even ask that question when you are receiving welfare? Amazing.[/quote]

your enjoying this aren’t you… I said that as a reply to the comment above, before I knew how to make it a reply. Family shrugging you off when your in need is really sad, and I don’t understand it. Ive been through a lot of harsh times and I’m so far beyond thankful for all the help I had.

[quote Anonymous][quote simplyincreadabl]since you have to put it that way I got pregnant on birth control EACH TIME my children are a blessing from god and accomplished and amazing feat by being conceived.[/quote]I suggest you try a new method of birth control or read the directions more carefully. It’s rather hard to believe that you are the .01 % that gets pregnant while using birth control EACH TIME.

I appreciate babies and I understand the ‘blessings’ concept but procreation is not an amazing feat by any stretch of the imagination. You do know how babies are made, don’t you?[/quote]

What is your issue dude? as a matter of fact yes I do know how babies are made, and because Im a forgetful person I was never on the pill, to miss a day. Each pregnancy happened on a different form of birth control, that the person herself could not screw up. So yea I am the .01% a few times. Which makes my children damned determined to be born, and being conceived while while a few measurements are taken to prevent it, is a feat. Why are you posting such comments anonymous??

this is Help.com Im asking for advise not criticism, if you have nothing productive to say please keep it to your self. I don’t deserve to hear crap about birth control because a couple of methods have fell through for me, that doesn’t matter to me. I love my children no matter who has fathered them.

[quote Anonymous]You don’t pack up and move 600 miles away because you had a fight with someone. You broke up and are staying friends for the sake of the baby. If that’s true then you really have no right to know anything that’s going on with him. So…you have children by your ‘ex’ and the ‘ex’ visited you for Father’s Day? And, now you have a baby on the way with another ‘ex’ who can visit on Father’s Day too. And, since both ‘daddies’ are ‘ex’es, the next guy in your life will hopefully know a little about birth control and not mind a crowded house on Father’s Day.[/quote]

since you have to put it that way I got pregnant on birth control EACH TIME my children are a blessing from god and accomplished and amazing feat by being conceived.

[quote Anonymous]I’ve taken the time to read a few of your previous posts. I’m sure it wasn’t a great experience for him to see photos of you online with your pregnant belly (you say it’s his baby?) and standing with your ‘ex’ by your side. What sort of game is this? He probably thinks it’s not really his baby. Don’t be surprised if he wants a dna test done.

In your other posts, you said it was over and you are staying ‘friends’ for the sake of the baby. So why are you looking for more than friendship now? It makes no sense. Stop lying to yourself (and to him).[/quote]

Wow that’s pretty harsh. I love him, and its very hard to completely get over him, but I’m not alone on it he has been telling me he loves me and wants me back, as well as saying he’s done with trying. We have both dated other people since our breakup. I love him and just like when he was here, we argue and break up, only to make up again, a lot of times it feels like our fights only made us stronger. I have doubts (of course) because it seems very hot and cold. The baby is his with out doubt, if he wants a dna test he is welcome to get one.

He moved because we got in a fight and broke up in December. I found out I was pregnant with his baby in January. I know he has dated someone since being there but even while he was with her he said he couldn’t stop thinking about me and he hated being away while I was pregnant, we always talked about having children together and we got together while I was pregnant and he just loved experiencing the pregnancy with me. He currently lives with his step father but he used to live with a family who just let him. I haven’t visited because I don’t have a vehicle, and taking my children and my pregnant self to a huge populated city Ive never visited is honestly a terrifying thought. I admit I have crossed the boundaries by telling his now ex that he was still saying he loved me and was taking too long to break up with her (because he said he would do it on his own time) But Ive been trying so hard to respect and trust him since. I mean he has told me of several girls he hangs out with and yada yada and I don’t go off asking questions or putting them down. I know people need friends and most of them are friends from when he went to high school there. I dont know I honestly jut don’t get it. Especially how he stresses how important it is for me to trust him and as soon as there is a questionable situation on my side, he says Im lying.