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oh baby, don’t do that. don’t give up. go talk to a counselor or someone you really trust. they can help. you’re not alone love. i’ll pray for you.

well thanks anyway. i just feel really miserable about being kind of a fall guy. it’s like she just kind of gets to ditch me for a while when i least expect it.

:) i hope so too. thank you.

okay, that sounds all right. thanks.

ask him about it. he might tell you the truth and he might not but at least if you confront him like beccafunn suggested then it’ll bring you that much closer

about a year. but we became really really close throughout that year

yeah…but if she really wants space i should give it to her right?

thanks, friend.

well i act without thinking sometimes…and i get irate at myself when i do it because i never mean anyone any harm. like i’ll say something idiotic and she might get offended based on what it is. but she is a good person. and i hope we can get all this sorted out. she might just be moody.

i really hope so. thank you though :)

oh btw queenbeesoleil is just my other email :) it’s still the same person who posted this question

[quote jmfan5289]It means she’s not exactly into the idea of being really close friends with you. She may have even heard something from your ex that she didn’t like. Taking things slow in a friendship means lets not hang out too much.[/quote]

here were her exact words: let’s take this slow…i’m ready to be friends with you again but with you comes all your friends too…and some of them just aren’t the people i’d hang out with. they’re nice and everything…but i am still your friend and i’d like to be that.

i mean i hope this is all at least somewhat temporary…

[quote Anonymous]Who met your ex first, you or her?

How much do you trust this friend? How long have you been friends?[/quote]

she knows him better than i do. technically i met him first but she knows him better. i’ve known her for a year. we’re close. we know a lot about each other. i would trust her with anything.

[quote courtybubble]Have you ever had any behavioural therapy?[/quote]

i have not, i have a psychiatrist appointment tomorrow though

everyone else, I am trying to deal with it as much as I can but I feel like I’m stuck in a huge rut. :( it’s just not a good situation

:) thanks guys. both your ideas worked! i talked to her honestly and calmly about my feelings and we’re fine now :D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BaQair…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RpO-Zm…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ldhg60…

if these aren’t proof that there is a God then I don’t know what is