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• how do you hint to your boyfriend you want some romantic OR “us” time? posted (3 weeks) ago
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• Any recommendations for “cat friendly” large dog breeds? posted (1 month, 2 weeks) ago
  I have a kitten and want to get 2 dogs as well.…

• Logging off - hope everyone has a great day! posted (1 month, 2 weeks) ago
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• Does it matter that the ex-girlfriend is prettier than you? posted (1 month, 2 weeks) ago
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• My 3months old kitten has a small hernia, even though the vet was very positive about it growing back by itself, I was wondering - has anyone seen something posted (1 month, 2 weeks) ago
  3months old kitten has a small hernia, even though the vet was very positive about it growing back …

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• i am so depressed i cant cope with life anymore i have
  

  dothedishes - bugger off…
  - written 2 weeks, 5 days ago

• Any recommendations for “cat friendly” large dog breeds?
  

  Picking up my Labrador (decided on the name Toby) and Boxer (Milo) this weekend. hopefully my cat (Chilli) will be fine. Thanks for all the suggestions guys!!! :-)
  - written 2 weeks, 5 days ago

• I’m an animal lover and I am all about animal rights but…
  

  The labrador was my choice, always wanted one. And the Boxer was my boyfriends choice…need to compromise in a relationship I guess. But they are both beautiful puppies and I’m very excited about my new babies :-) My cat is only 5months old and very attached to us, so I’m a bit worried about his reaction towards the new family members, but it should be fine. We will be going to puppy training next week as well, so we will get some advice there.
  Luckily we have a huge garden at the back of our house where the dogs can reside and Chilli (my cat) will have peace inside the house when he needs it. Chilli is a very cute cat and copes well with most difficult situations. We recently moved and he was very good, we used to live in a flat - so I think he is out of his element with all the extra space to run around and play in. Especially the garden.
  Well, seems like you have a good heart and I hope you and your brother can get to a solution that is both good for you and his pets.
  - written 2 weeks, 5 days ago

• I’m an animal lover and I am all about animal rights but…
  

  Its not about legal responsiblity, it is about doing what is right and in favor of the animals. Just because you have more authority than them, does not mean decisions about their wellbeing should be taken lightly. I’m sorry “aimlessly” - i know i’m being a bit rude here, but sometimes people can be quite selfish.
  Also - very sorry about your dog - must have been difficult.
  - written 2 weeks, 5 days ago

• I’m an animal lover and I am all about animal rights but…
  

  Okay, well try just a little bit harder. If your borther is at all like me, he will much rather listen to you when you sit and talk normally on what bothers you and that he should put more time into cleaning after his animals. Rather than being stubborn about it. Becuase that is usually when my ears clamp closed and nothing good can come from that. I love animals - i have a cat (which luckily have a huge garden to his toilet needs) and getting a labrador and boxer this weekend…very excited about my new “housemates”!
  Sorry - i’m drifting off the subject…
  I get that you have a lot of responsibilities and did not agree to having pets (more responsibility) this is unfair to you. But there must be some way that you can work this out. Getting rid of an animal is always the last resort. Don’t let the cats suffer from a miss-step your brother made. And get your brother to take more responsibilities for his actions and pets.
  - written 2 weeks, 5 days ago

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