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• Slackline help posted (2 years, 1 month) ago
  i’ve just bought a new jibline from gibbon and on the first set up, i managed to get the ratc…

• Is your partner’s past love life important to you? posted (2 years, 11 months) ago
  …

• Easter in Slovakia.. posted (3 years, 1 month) ago
  [youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qnp6Ysth7B8] So, now you know why I live in England, lol ;…

• ♥ Love ♥ vs. posted (3 years, 3 months) ago
  ☠ Toxic Love ☠ 1. Love - Development of self first priority. Toxic love - Obsession with re…

• What is greater than God, posted (3 years, 4 months) ago
  More evil than the devil, The poor have it, The rich need it, And if you eat it, you’ll die…

• Blessing for 2010: posted (3 years, 4 months) ago
  may God give us the force of the mountains, the purity of the fountains, the light of the sun, t…

• “Christmas gift suggestion: posted (3 years, 5 months) ago
  To your enemy, forgiveness. To an opponent, tolerance. To a friend, your heart. To a customer, serv…

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M.y.a's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (3 votes) Please Don’t Reply to This - This post is only for people who have no idea which way is up
  

  dn sı ʎɐʍ ɥɔıɥʍ ɐǝpı ou ǝʌɐɥ oɥʍ ǝןdoǝd ɹoɟ ʎןuo sı ʇsod sıɥʇ - sıɥʇ oʇ ʎןdǝɹ ʇ’uop ǝsɐǝןd
  
  - written 3 years, 6 months ago – voted for by Yeti., QueenLazyMcCoolBeans, BuckingFastard (J.N)

• (2 votes) Are you at all bothered that we live…
  

  “Would you please give your honest opinion about solutions to the food shortage in the rest of the world?”
  
  This was the only question to a worldwide survey which was conducted by the UN.
  
  The survey was a huge failure…
  
  In Africa they didn’t know what “food” meant.
  In Eastern Europe they didn’t know what “honest” meant.
  In Western Europe they didn’t know what “shortage” meant.
  In China they didn’t know what “opinion” meant.
  In the Middle East they didn’t know what “solution” meant.
  In South America they didn’t know what “please” meant.
  And in the US they didn’t know what “the rest of the world” meant.
  
  http://help.com/post/334144-would-you-please-give-your-h
  
  Sorry, have not noticed your post..
  
  - written 3 years, 5 months ago – voted for by Yeti., helping

• (1 vote) stuck, sad..Is being myself going to hurt me?
  

  hi, so from what you describe your in-laws are basically bullies who envy you, and that’s why they treat you this bad. unless you become some ugly beast, i don’t think they will stop.
  
  what makes your situation even sadder is that your own folks would not support you leaving! no doubt that you are still young to start a new, better life; you do deserve better! i am afraid it will have to be you who will have to make a choice about leaving.
  
  there are plenty of resources about dealing with bullies/difficult people/in-laws, but the important fact is that you will not be able to change your in-laws! you can only change yourself.. and you either become what your in-laws want you to become thus accepting you, or you choose a new life and leave, which would also leave you entirely alone without your family’s support.
  
  to me you seem as a strong person, and i have no doubt that you can succeed in life and start from the beginning. i have seen many, many ladies wasting their lives in unhappy marriages, but also can understand that a leap into an unknown where you will stay all by yourself is difficult. saying that, you can always come here and find some support! ;)
  
  best wishes, and God bless you!
  
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago – voted for by AngelaLO

• (1 vote) How to get motivated when you are really depressed?
  

  I’m sorry you are going through a tough time, Hamama hamana! I’ve been there myself, just getting out of the depression.., so I know how you feel.
  
  What worked for me the best was to prioritize what was really, really essential to do, and leave out the rest. Or ask for help. And as the previous poster said, break it up to a manageable chunks.
  
  And treat yourself well! Either eat what you really love eating, sleep as much as you can, allow yourself some fun and good time without feeling guilty about it! Depression time is the time for yourself! :) A car can not take it’s passengers safely anywhere if it’s broken, so it needs to be repaired first..
  
  Good luck with getting better! :) Just don’t put a pressure on yourself..
  
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago – voted for by Best of Luck!

• (1 vote) I have a boyfriend , But I like a close friend of mine .
  

  My daughter turned 10 yesterday and she asked for a cuddly toy for a present.. The idea that she should be having dilemmas about which boy to date in a year is making me have goose bumps, brr. Girl, enjoy your childhood, you’ll never get it back!
  
  - written 3 years, 2 months ago – voted for by BuckingFastard (J.N)

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• What do you think about social awkwardness?
  

  i am socially awkward and it’s a pain.. i can’t even work with any people at all! that’s what bugs me the most about it - being unable to have a job which i would like
  - written 1 year ago

• Im so sad, i hurt so bad.
  

  Please, don’t give up hope, you can make new friends and find a new boyfriend, but first of all you need to work on your self worth. (http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/29-ways-to-increase-your-feeling-of-self-worth/)
  
  If you have some interests or like playing some sports, join some clubs, you will meet new people and make friends. There is always someone here who you can talk to.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• My name is Niki, I am 19, female, and I’m the eldest out of us four.
  

  It is understandable that you feel hurt and upset about your mother’s reactions which are wrong! You don’t deserve to be treated like that and you are doing the right thing looking for help. I hope you will find some counsellor or someone to talk to. There are many charitable organisations which provide help or advise. You are a bright person, you can get through this, it will make you stronger, but please seek only a non-violent solutions! Good luck
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• My mother abuses me with words which are much more painful than physical pain, but she does both, not just to me but to my siblings as well.
  

  i’ve found these websites, hope they might help:
  
  http://www.bantaybata163.com/index.php?pg=report
  
  http://www.stairwayfoundation.org/stairway/resources/online-resources/reporting-an-abuse
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• My mother abuses me with words which are much more painful than physical pain, but she does both, not just to me but to my siblings as well.
  

  CHILD ABUSE is punishable by Philippine Laws
  
  Reminding everyone that child abuse is a crime, in Philippines it is covered by R.A. 7610 ” Act Against Child Abuse, Exploitation, Discrimination and Other Purposes”
  
  “Child abuse” refers to the maltreatment, whether habitual or not, of the child which includes any of the following:
  
  (1) Psychological and physical abuse, neglect, cruelty, sexual abuse and emotional maltreatment;
  
  (2) Any act by deeds or words which debases, degrades or demeans the intrinsic worth and dignity of a child as a human being;
  
  (3) Unreasonable deprivation of his basic needs for survival, such as food and shelter; or
  
  (4) Failure to immediately give medical treatment to an injured child resulting in serious impairment of his growth and development or in his permanent incapacity or death.
  
  http://www.philippinesboard.com/forum/visa-legal-issues/140-child-abuse-punishable-philippine-laws.html
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

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