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if you let this hurt you too much now you should just make yourself feel glad that it didn’t happen like a few months later because then you would be killin 10 times more then you are now. whenever you’re at the stage of leaving you feel so shocked and depressed and feel as if you couldn’t love the person anymore than now because you’re so close, but as time goes by, u feel like the day before was nothing compared to the current moment. so if this happened some time after you would be hurtin so much thinking that it would’ve been better off if it happened in the earlier stages. right now it’s still gonna be hurtin for you and if you ever managed to get back together the same thing could happen again and you’ll just get hurt even more. you can either get emotional or move on. i know it’s hard and there’s nothing wrong with getting emotional but too much of it will get you nowhere, and by then you’ll find it even harder to move on so the sooner the better. don’t hurt yourself over someone who has just proved to you that you deserve better. find someone who’s worth it but never rush into a relationship. take care of yourself

thats good you do that. mainly i’ll try and help someone else to make myself feel better

have you been forced by anyone to work hard or become as good as you are now. was there any pressure?

u never know he may be uncomfortable with the whole situation but if it’s not that then it’s probably because he afraid of your reaction and if you’re in that stage where you can’t afford to have problems because you don’t have much time together, then maybe he doesn’t want to end up making a mistake by moving too fast for you because neither of you really know what the other is comfortable with so it’s best to speak about it. this can turn out to be a big problem if it isn’t discussed between the two of you.

well i love it myself lol

once my mates got hold of a picture of me when i was 4 years old… naked lol

thanx they’re the 1’s i dont get bored of lol

eminem - sing for the moment

nivea - complicated

akon ft flashy - stay down

usher - u got it bad

kano ft craig david - this is the girl

avril lavigne - keep holding on

… sorry about the list lol

what is it around you that makes you feel different all the time. do you feel better being with some people than with others? how are things at home, any problems? or is it friends? or is it too hard to get your finger on it. everyone’s here to help you but may need a little more detail on your situation. is there anything you’d like to let out. what’s one of the worst problems you’re having to deal with right now?

well i had to swap shoes with my mate in the middle of an award ceremony because his were totally ripped and turned out to look like sandals so he couldn’t walk up the steps onto the stage. first of all everyone was watching including the teachers and second of all my name came up next and i had no shoes on and i wouldn’t even dream about wearing his so i tried to avoid going up but everyone was looking back at me so i went to get my award without my shoes on and everyone was like “what happened there :S” and started to laugh of course lolll wel i found it quite embarrassin

you’ll get good and bad but will always seem to take more notice on the bad that you get and it makes you forget about the good you had to begin with and leaves you depressed so just be happy with what you’ve got, even if that means one pair of clothes and an umbrella

just wanted to say that i hope things get better for you because everyone deserves some happiness in their life and hopefully you’ll get it soon

no matter how hard things get running away only ads to your problems leaving you with more to deal with and then you’ll have too much more to stress about and it probabl feels like people can’t make things any worse and that’s probably right, but you yourself will be able to make it worse if you let yourself make the wrong decision so don’t give yourself any more pain than you’re already getting. your life may be worse than every other person that you know but running away never solves anything. parents can be annoying and can act childish at times and may make you feel isolated but every1 can do that sometimes when they have things to think about because at the end of the day, your parents were your age once upon a time aswell and they’ve grown up through problems and the reason that they’re like this may even be because of their own upbringing and if you were in that position you wouldn’t like to be blamed for turning out the way you did so it’s also necessary to consider what’s made a person the way they are. you must be having a really hard time and it’ll be tough to make you wanna do anything good 4 your family when they don’t seem to be doing anything for you but if you don’t wanna live for anyone else then live 4 yourself and when time goes by let everyone see that no matter what they put you through and no matter how much disprespect and hatred they’ve shown towards you, you still managed to come out on top and you didn’t let it get to you. if you stay this way then no1 will ever take notice. you need to do good for yourself. keeping yourself happy throughout the rough times people give you is the only sort of revenge you need. don’t sink yourself to the level of anyone else. if anoyone prevents you from living a happy life, DO NOT let it be an excuse to give up. take care of yourself before expecting anyone else to care because if the day comes where no1 at all is there 4 u, you’ll need to no how to care 4 yourself without having the need of others comforting you.

it can protect you from pain at a price of offering you pain at the same time so therefore many people believe that love doesn’t exist. but when your partner cancels out the pain that comes your way, all you can ever feel is a shield of happiness. and the day that you fall in love is when the feeling of vulnerability loses it’s role in your life… because that’s when nothing else matters. nothing but the one you love

it’s when your heart begins to contract everytime you take a step away from the person you luv. it’s when you smile and cry without obvious reason. it’s when you wish 2 die for someone but wouldn’t dare because you’re not that selfish to leave them to suffer in this life on their own.