Thank you for all your help. I will look into those books for sure. I always enjoy bettering myself. Guess its time to improve my communication towards women. I need to hang those last few sentences somewhere so i remember it. Again, thankyou very much. - written 1 month ago
Yeah, completely understanding this. Sounds very likely that this is actually the situation. Guess ive been so deep into the denial of saying im not that guy that its just even harder to accept. I cant believe that I fell into the category of BACKUP. Oh well im going to do what you said with the breakup journal, sounds to me that may really help. I do however, have an issue meeting new women, and im wondering if thats why i turned into the guy who will wait around. I think im a pretty good looking guy, but im extremely shy and stumble over words when i go and try to meet women. Always seem to find a way to mess up. I know women are human too and nothing to be affraid of but i dont know why i have such trouble meeting them. - written 1 month ago
WOW (linuxya) thats very insightful of you. Like everything else, its hard to take in. But im forcing myself to listen. thank you. ITs a wierd thing to try and accept. I dont know that shes dating right now. Its hard to not believe everything shes saying to me. What you say makes complete sense, but that means in a way shes lieing to me. I talked to her straight up about what i thought was going on and that was a point i brought up (we just became to good of friends and she ust didnt feel the same) and she said no. - written 1 month ago
i hope your right ‘atearfromheaven’. I really do, i dont want to let go. It was such an amazing thing that we had. and she seemed to enjoy it as much, if not, more than i did.
Rosanna - ill be honest with you, you need to tell him what you just told me your feeling. if the girl im talking about came to me and told me she just doesnt feel the same anymore. IT would be hard to hear but at the same time much easier than just trying to get over something that he has no real idea why it ended besides your personal tries and tribulations. Cause thats what love is, if its true theyll be there to help you with ANYTHING. - written 1 month ago
