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• (2 votes) I want to understand my girlfriend.
  

  She has a low self confident and probably she is afraid that you are going to leave her - I assume her fear is adjust meaning it is probable that she was left by someone close to her and that left a trauma in her.
  She might felf that it was her fault somehow.
  You need to raise her self confident by praising her and complementing her as much as you can - this will lead her to be more dependent on you emotionally.
  I understand that is opposite to the real goal but it’s a good start.
  So, do whatever you can to make sure everyone around her keep praising her.
  try to push away people who are slamming her confident.
  Shortly put - try to help her rebuild her confident.
  for example: “am I good enough” -> answer -> “no - you are the best!”
  Good luck bro.
  
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by kid_tnt, Wish*I*WasNeverBorn

• (1 vote) Can’t get along with my boyfriend’s best friend at all.
  

  he got a point - scratch the disc instead.
  
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by jUsT SmiLe!

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• I’m starting to lose my faith in God.
  

  Ok, I must be honest before I advise you and let you know I’m Jewish :)
  Yet, your dillema is shared among many people from many religions out there.
  Is God really exists?? did he created everything?? Is he good or perhaps evil or maybe he don’t really care?? even if God do exists is Christanity is the right way to worship God? maybe Jewish? Maybe Muslim? something else maybe? really - how can we tell what is right? after all we are not getting any physical signals from God lately…
  
  I will share with you few conslusions I had regarding this matter in hope it might help you a bit.
  
  Proof of God:
  If I exist - somthing created me (my parents to that matter) - and somthing created what is created me - and so on recursivley until two conclusions possible:
  1. the recrusive of creation is never ending.
  or
  2. somthing created the 1st bone in this chain.
  Now, if you take conclusion (2) - that somthing is in fact God.
  however if you take conslusion (1), you can notice a repeating rule in the chain, somthing is always creating somthing.. so who decided on the rule?? I mean if it’s rule and it is repeating than it is not random - so someone decided on it - that will be God.
  
  Proof that God care for what is going on in here and it was aimed for:
  A great being will not create somthing without a plan.
  A table will not exist unless someone planed to create it in order to be used for some purpose and since we already learned that everything is created by God - everything has purpose in God plans.
  
  Proof that God is good:
  evil cannot exist without good and good cannot exist without evil and since we expirencing both in our lives and not just humans but any creature we able to study in respect to those measures.. God must be either good or Evil but cannot be ambient or careless. since we already agree that God must have a plan and a plan must have a purpose.. so it have to be of service of somthing good as evil has no purpose and need no plan.
  
  I have no “logical” proof for Judasim or Christanity and etc as the correct way to worship god. I studied alot thinking of God and I will tell you that I have a very long to write proof to the followings a well:
  1. we are living in the past - God is in the present, so in everything we do (which is in the past) we just choosing a way to uphold an already manifested present :)
  2. the whole reality is a relection of God and you are part of that.
  
  by the way I’m not religous and share your conflict from time to time too.
  - written 3 weeks, 1 day ago

• I can’t do anything to get girls to like me.
  

  Let me ask you this question: if you were a girl what type of guy would you want :)
  Just be that guy! (and do not afraid to exaggerate on that thought)
  Don’t be the guy that everyone would want as a friend.. be the guy that everyone want to be like.
  - written 3 weeks, 1 day ago

• I want to die.
  

  I care for you.
  All you need is love - Life is not that bad :)
  You are in struggle for ahieving what? maybe attention? maybe peace? maybe you would wish you could return to some point in your life and change everything from that point? are you living in the past feeling the future is just time about to be wasted? that is all wrong.
  God created everything in this world for you - just for you.
  And trust me - i’m not a relgious person :)
  Your life is the reflection of what you project in your mind being given or provided to you in so many ways that it hides you from the truth. the simple truth is that you are life and everything you decide is achievable by you and for you.
  You have the power to change everything in your life:
  1. you want life to be more intersting, you are bored - go study :)
  2. you want more attention - love others, visit them, make freindships :)
  3. you want more control, money - develop, create get a job :)
  I can continue the list - but so can you.
  So cheer up, raise you head and open your eyes wider - everything is in your grasp and many people want you to be happy and smiling and enjoying life as you should.
  - written 3 weeks, 1 day ago

• I think my friend needs some help.
  

  So, basicly… your friend want to be like us?? :)
  
  Well - Tell him to come here to this web site and he will achieve his goal without all the feathers or robe..
  In my opnion a RLSH is you - who want to help your friend or anyone comming here.
  They all come here to help others - it’s real, they do it out of clear will to help others - it’s life!
  if the human nature is to survive and take care of your own self,
  anything that is done beyond that frame is super human.
  So it’s not glorified like batman or superman - but they were not real anyway..
  
  if that is not being a real life super hero - I don’t what is.
  - written 2 months, 4 weeks ago

• What makes a person popular?
  

  well, in that case i’ll give a shorter answer:
  People can become popular becuase jelousy…
  - written 2 months, 4 weeks ago

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