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• Dish network or Direct TV? posted (3 years, 1 month) ago
  I’ve been with direct tv for over yrs I can say they’re costly…but lately been…

• everyone tells me to forgive my younger sister but I can’t. posted (3 years, 2 months) ago
  First, I had to help bail my sister out of a car accident that she had w/ my mom’s van becaus…

• I’m not asking for sympathy… but shoot this totally suck big time…(talking about the economy) I got a job thru a temp agency…after posted (3 years, 3 months) ago
  not asking for sympathy… but shoot this totally suck big time…(talking about the econom…

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• im 15 and seeing a 21 year old is this ok?
  

  the age difference is okay… but your age along it isn’t because … a 21yr and a 15yr will not see eye to eye on things… and have two different point of views and expectation out of a relationship…and of course cause it’s illegal for a grown man(him) to have a relationship w/ a minor(you).
  - written 3 years, 1 month ago

• morals, cheating, and a tricky situation, I really need help on this.
  

  [quote D.o.u.c.e.][quote] and she said if she could ever at least have one day with me as a couple she would be set with her relationship. [/quote]
  
  I’m sorry, but WHAT THE F***!? IS SHE CRAZY? Dude, she’s just wants to have sex with you. She doesn’t care about being a couple.
  
  There’s so many different things that could be going through her mind. As soon as you said all that “She will be complete after just one day” I read that like a book.
  
  I’m saying this without trying to offend because many girls would agree with me, but they’re manipulative. Very manipulative. They can make you believe ANYTHING that comes out of their mouth, and some girls couldn’t care less what happens to you after they get to you.
  
  Do you talk to her about how great your relationship is with the girl you want to grow old with? She could be jealous of that and possibly just want for you to fall down so she can be happier with where she’s at in her relationship, if that’ll even exist anymore. You have to realize it’s not just you, her, and your girlfriend that is involved. There’s also her boyfriend, that PROBABLY won’t be very happy with what happens if she “bed’s you”.
  
  What if she told him and started saying that you took advantage of her? Now who’s the ***? Definitely not her, and she provoked all of this. Of course this is hypothetically speaking but with all that you’ve told me man, she just wants to screw your life up.
  
  One day together would make everything complete for her.. Yeah man, that’s golden. She’s going to get a taste of what she thinks is better, and then settle for second best. No girl does that. Why have a generic steak when you can have prime rib?
  
  Trust me, if you do this, it will not end with just one day. It’s your decision but if you really truly do love this girl living on the East coast, you’re going to tell your friend to step off and go satisfy her needs elsewhere.
  
  You’re in a long distance relationship, you’re obviously more vulnerable to attention because you haven’t seen your actual girlfriend in a while, and it’s even harder when you’ve had sex before because you know what troubles it can bring, and how great it can be if it’s with someone you really do care about.
  
  That’s my 2 cents, I could keep going on and on, but that’s what it boils down to.[/quote]
  
  
  
  [quote D.o.u.c.e.]I know Empress, but I hope you know where I’m coming from lol. I don’t mean to single any gender out or offend anyone. In this situation though you can tell it’s pretty obvious what her intentions are.. am I right?[/quote]
  agree with everything you’ve said but i too didn’t want to offend anyone…
  - written 3 years, 1 month ago

• morals, cheating, and a tricky situation, I really need help on this.
  

  you’re gambling with your feelings/morals and overall her feelings as well…you have a more sane mind…and know what’s right and what’s wrong.
  
  we girls tend to say one thing but when it comes to the feeling and hearts it could go either way (even in our thoughts)…by being together(as you’ve mention for 1 day) that itself is like killing more of her forever cause you’ve already given her the Pandora box… if not that… you yourself open it and might end up regretting what you’ve done because like you’ve mention… that your gf now… you “felt” like she’s the one you want to grow old with.
  
  maybe your “friend” needs a reality check.
  - written 3 years, 1 month ago

• Dish network or Direct TV?
  

  thank you… for the info’s will be telling hubby that.
  - written 3 years, 1 month ago

• Dish network or Direct TV?
  

  that’s what I’m thinking dish network way cheaper… but seems like there’s a catch.
  - written 3 years, 1 month ago

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