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• I am a failure.
  

  hell, man, I wouldn’t like to be in your shoes and I’m a sh**-sort of adviser, but I’m gonna tell ye what I do when I wanna make it really painful - I hit it hard with ma wrists. anything - fridge, wall, piece o’wood. then the pain wears off and ye willing to live again.
  - written 3 years, 2 months ago

• Yet another post on here about being lost.
  

  well, the first thing that comes to my mind is that too many questions can only be responded to with too many answers, so ye need to re-read some of bible. on the other hand, we may think of it simple: isn’t that man who created… say, an amount of “wrongs” i.e. poverty, war etc. and isn’t that man who should help his like? and for natural things, well, I believe these are to strengthen our spirit, in the religious point of view. Wheather god has abandoned us or not, I think we gotta try our best to BE humaine. My appologies if I insult your beliefs, but that’s my atheistic opinion.
  - written 3 years, 2 months ago

• I like this guy and all he does is stare at me, and
  

  …held the door open with no one comming in or out… - that’s quite wierd, but anyway, most probably that’s a helluva shy fellow. I’d advise ye to try and chack ‘im: invite the shy punk to some movie ro sth. you may also try doing that in company i.e. his friends + your friends. Whatever there is YOU gotta act, ’cause the guy aint gonna (I was quite the type, so I know). By the way, you sort of like him, dontcha? cuz otherwise - call the cops!!! ;)
  - written 3 years, 2 months ago

• Help possibly depressed about life!
  

  Oh, boy. It seems that you think exactly the way I did 10 years ago, when I was 13. The feeling of sth unknown in the future, and the appear-to-be-unsettled present, and the fear to lose the help and love of the parents. It is a period of life that’s quite hard to go through, I guess, and that is, ’cause you do it the first time. Until growing into -teens I haven’t much thought of my parents could… well say “leave me”- with time, I guess, one just get used to those things, like in sports. Hey, you do the right thing going to the gym! That’s so not only ’cause the exercises are of great aid when fighting stress, but rather that when you’re in for sports you mix with people more, which helps you to, sort of, dissolve your problems. Share it. I truly beleive that the same goes with parents. One having any problems or fears should ask their parents opinion - you’re family after all!(That worked perfectly with my granny.) Well, and for the future, I agree with the entry above. Keep thumbs up, good luck!
  - written 3 years, 4 months ago

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