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Thanks for sharing your story. I wanted to give you a big kudo for you reply to this post: http://help.com/post/7870/well-see-th…
I thought you handled the reply so very well. By relating it to your own experience I’m sure this guy will really benefit from your exprience.

so you were an 18 year old dating a 26 year old i know this man may seem like a god to you but really he is not think about it how many guys could you have possibily dated between the time that you reached maturity and the time you started dating this one guy if you ask me he was interested in having intercoaurse with you and now doesnt have the heart to get rid of you so he maintians a friend relationship with you cause he feels it is owed to you but believe me 3 years and hes not dating i doubt it sweetheart i hate to be the one to tell you this cause you sound like a sweet girl but hes over you its time you move on im sorry but its true because if he was the one then he would of realized it by now im sorry to crush your hopes and dreams but maybe try and not see him so much or not at all and see if he pursues you or lets you go just try it but if you want him in your life at then ignore everything i have just said and be his friend if he really loves you hell come around

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^^ wonderful, thank you :D