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Where do you live now?
Auckland
What subjects did/do you enjoy the most at school?
Physics
What hobbies are you into?
Painting, guitar, ballroom dancing, reading, argentine tango
If you claim a political party affliation, which is it?
left-libertarian
SomeNZguy's Top (4) Replies by other users' votes“fat”
Maybe you are.. but if you’re flat chested, I’m going to say you probably are not fat.
“ugly”
To some people you possibly are. But to some other’s you’re beautiful. If you’re in the first group, try to take some solace in the fact that the second group exists.
“disgusting”
Uh.. take a shower and stop picking your nose. Done? Good, you’re not disgusting any more - congratulations!
“don’t know what set it off”
Something to think about when you’re feeling stronger. Don’t worry about it now.
“i can’t stop crying”
Usually a good thing. Go for it!
“my face is ugly”
You may have to agree to disagree on this one. Almost everyone probably doesn’t think you’re ugly, and some probably think you’re beautiful. That’s kind of how it works.
“i have no breasts”
Okayy.. what’s that got to do with the price of tea in China? Unless you have career ambitions as a 1970s pornstar.. you don’t do you? You’d need a TARDIS or something for that anyway. There’s no rule that says no breasts = unattractive. In fact, when it comes to what’s beautiful, ugly or neither, there simply are no rules. Well horrible flesh eating diseases can push people towards the ugly side of the bell curve. But breasts, or lack thereof.. it’s all good!
“my hips are huge”
I see. Get a medical opinion on this - maybe they’re inflamed! Nah, chances are, you’re just a wide-hipped woman, which is probably a good thing if you ever have the misfortune (uh.. joy!) of giving birth. But in terms of attractiveness.. again, doesn’t make a difference. If you really care, people with a waist to hip ration of around 0.7 tend to be healthier.. not sure why.
“i have nothing”
Well you have random strangers on the internet who are upset that you see yourself so poorly and wish you well. Chances are you have other stuff too. But even strangers care about you.
“noone wants me”
Maybe. I don’t know.
“noone ever will”
Unlikely. But you know.. try to be, or if you must, pretend to be happy about yourself some of the time. That’ll make people want to be around you. A range of emotions is what people want in a person. Be sad sometimes, be happy sometimes, get angry, get compassionate.. hate yourself if you must but don’t forget to love yourself, be embarrassed when you deserve to be and be quietly proud of yourself the rest of the time. If it’s too difficult to be genuinely proud of yourself or happy, it’s okay to fake it to start off with - it gets easier.
“i hate it”
That’s ok.
“i’m ******* worthless”
Umm.. no. Definitively no.
- written 1 year, 9 months ago – voted for by Dæmon, Princess K, ashneedshelp
It could be. There’s no way to know (as far as I can imagine).
It feels real, because it’s all you’ve ever known.
- written 1 year, 4 months ago – voted for by John5910
[quote .Eli.]That G U Pope should’ve at least used google translate, this translation is barely understandable.[/quote]
Well it’s not an email - it’s a series of poems. Poems are art, and the thing about art is that you’re supposed to stop and think about them for a bit.
I thought about them for a bit, and here’s what the words mean to me (if you stopped and thought about them, maybe you’ll read them differently, and that’s ok too):
1. If you are not a loving person, you will be alone; If you are a loving person, then other people will treasure you.
2. To be horrible to someone is as stupid as eating the bitter fruit of a tree instead of the sweet ones.
3. Remember the good things others have done for you. Forget the bad.
4. It’s better to destroy virtue than to destroy benefit [?? I don’t understand this one]
5. A burn on your skin will heal in time, but unkind words can scar permanently.
- written 1 year, 8 months ago – voted for by R D K
I’m going to say no. Only because the whole thing is overrated. Losing your virginity is no big deal. But what you describe (”we did it because we sincerely cared for each other.”) certainly is a big deal - congratulations on that!
- written 1 year, 9 months ago – voted for by alfredobusta