2013-11-28 15:37:05 on University Personal statement help, I am applying for 2 similar courses
You are spot on in your analysis, what you are asking is that you pay these people to provide you with some tools, in normal interaction you as the consumer would exercise a dominant role. So do it.
Tell what you want and what you will do when you have got it.
Less of please mister let me on your course, more of this is what I am looking for in a course and why.
2013-11-28 15:32:44 on I just had an interesting thought.
You fool Christmas is Santa Claus’s Birthday everyone knows that.
2013-11-28 15:31:13 on Absolute freedom = absolute horror!
Freedom works absolutely
2013-11-28 13:21:58 on I am a relatively new bass guitar player.
Grab the tool and just do it.
2013-11-28 11:43:26 on it has been three days can not hear .:)
It takes decades but always comes out good, if you can hang around
2013-11-28 11:24:09 on How do I delete my account on here?
Scarlett he is not a second choice he is your current choice, Stay here with your old posts but make him feel special, and make it obvious that he is your current choice, everyone has fond memories of past relationships, but in reality they are having find memories of the past mixed with memories of the relationships, I wish I was 19 again as everything was new and exciting.
2013-11-28 11:18:27 on Depression and loneliness
You need an anchor point to attach your passions to an overwhelming interest to dispel the indifference.
That is why I have always said to you you should make something, materials they talk to you.
But I may well be wrong about the specifics but I think you will understand my point.
2013-11-28 11:15:00 on I’m trying to remember the name of a particular hip hop line dance.
The earliest recorded dance music we have dates to the 13th century, should we start there ;-)
2013-11-28 11:13:03 on feel so miserable all the time.
Your propblem is one of perception rather than one based in reality, you use words like disorder as if order existed in other people and not you. Sure is a depressing concept.
Cast aside these false premises, you are right as you are.
You must not measure yourself against these other people, do you really want to spend your time talking with others about sport or some other meaningless activity.
Sure it hurts when she left, but it hurts everyone when she leaves, nothing different about that.
Your challenge is not to try and integrate with the lowest common denominator of popular culture, but to identify in yourself what is special about you and cultivate that.
Most importantly be your own judge and be totally self reliant.
Ironically you will then flower and be surrounded by a more select group of interesting people.
I was mentally retarded for the first 50 years of my life, and though I would meet friends I was not always the gobshite.
You are just better than these people don’t let them know that.
2013-11-28 11:02:45 on ALERT PEOPLE !
Spot on Sanz
2013-11-28 06:45:58 on Start Here.
Is it an internet connection issue, or specifically the media player elemet of the phone. Of course jack is right.
2013-11-28 06:42:46 on My brain Hurts
“i feel like a bother to everyone and i feel really stupid for existing”
I have to admit I did not read it all but all I needed to read was in this first line.
I just knew that it was someone else who is making you feel bothersome and stupid for existing.
Your problem is not them as you can not directly control their behavior, what you can do is minimize their impact on your life by avoiding contact, and not reinforcing their bad behavior towards you.
Do not interpret this advice as me saying it is your fault. But that you can indirectly control their behavior.
What I have suggested is difficult when they are in the same house as you all the time. Just remember you can now and will in future develop a very full life on your own terms without them any where near.
Just do not identify with the aggressor and become like them.
2013-11-28 06:35:19 on I can’t control my anger,i always say to myself,
This is a temporal anomaly. I would say you have a “brain race condition” the solution is so simple. Slow down through the insertion of wait sates between what happens to you and your response.
The other people know you are snappy and will wind you up om purpose.
The most powerful people talk slowly and often say nothing at all.
Silence is the weapon to end a confrontation.
I repeat myself those who say don’t know those who know dont say.
Verbal language is a flawed mechanism for communication.
The time to practice this slowly quite approach is when you are not angry, say less, and when you do speak people will pay attention.
Everyone interrupts me and talks over me all the time. They are the rapid gabbers, I say little but when I do people will listen.
2013-11-28 06:28:52 on Hi, I’m Ellie.
No you are not, talking crap, it is good to have these feelings, as they give you the necessity for you to invent the solutions. The bullies now grow up to be adult bullies.
Be aware that all you need to do is very small things, and often not obvious things to control your own destiny (check out chaos theory and the butterfly).
Try not to mirror back the bad things people project onto you.
I would prescribe some of this.
Purely for its entertainment value
Do not retract the dis truth, essentially reduce the potency of it by saying of they ask that your supervisor work was limited to showing other new people what to do rather than monitoring their work.
If you do not lie a bit then you are not on a level playing field.
Dont say anything about it closing down as that was not your doing. Just that you had been trained and you showed some other people what you had been trained to do.