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• I just want to thank Help.commers for being so supportive over the years. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  I know this won’t reach everyone that this is relevant to, some for more drastic reasons than …

• I am having issues with my bluetooth. posted (4 years, 3 months) ago
  For whatever reason, my bluetooth disappeared. I managed to fix that though. Now, it can connect to …

• I am 2! posted (4 years, 3 months) ago
  ! I have been on help for 2 years!! Yay!! Go me! Me ftw! I love you ******* E>…

• **** is trying to split me away from my friends! posted (4 years, 4 months) ago
  There’s some weird love shape thing going on. Basically **** and Mo split up at some point, …

• Why don’t I get to be hot‽ posted (4 years, 4 months) ago
  It’s so annoying. There’s hot people everywhere. And there’s me who looks all ugly…

• MY ******* MOTHER IS DOING MY ******* HEAD IN. posted (4 years, 5 months) ago
  she doesn’t know when to shut up. she finds random things to complain about. and compares me …

• How can I get my own style? posted (4 years, 5 months) ago
  It’s like I’ll see someone’s hair or clothes style and think omg that’s so …

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Suc XVIII's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) What do i get my boyfriend for christmas?
  

  Mistletoe belt
  
  - written 4 years, 5 months ago – voted for by

• (1 vote) hey.why are people so afraid of people that are different?
  

  [quote Hybrid Theory]”There are two kinds of people in this world that I cant stand. People that are intolerant of other people’s cultures, and the Dutch.”lmao.[/quote]
  
  i love the dutch
  they have tulips
  and clogs O:
  omg clogs
  
  - written 4 years, 6 months ago – voted for by Alkaline 

• (1 vote) …sit back, relax, sit back, relapse again…
  

  [quote Ireland-1][quote yen88u]Psychotherapy is the most widely-used type of depression treatment and when used along with anti-depressant drugs has the best recovery rate. Psychotherapy includes therapy sessions lasting for practically any length of time. It is completely based on the patient and the therapist to decide when the treatment has yielded results. The excellent thing about psychotherapy is it helps the person to open up and discuss all that has been the cause of depression. This helps the therapist to talk the patient through their feelings and the best method of handling the situations, responsible for the depression.http://askaquery.com/question/Best-Depression-Treatment.html[/quote]We ALL exhibit self-defeating behavior in different ways,from the lesser like procrastinating to the more extreme like cutting. I’m convinced it is due to not expressing our emotions , whether or not we were taught to get in touch with them so they could be released . it’s not too late. Some of us cannot recognize exactly what we’re feeling, especially if not taught. I was one of them and still have a problem in seeing it for what it really is sometimes. Expanding my vocabulary has helped with that and I highly recommend doing this. If we look at the facts our feelings are an important part of us, we all have the same emotions , and they are what connects us to others, we have them for a purpose and they have great purpose. The most important is to release them in a healthy way. This requires Action. Yes, thinking is an action but we must go beyond just thinking and ‘Feeling’ them. Just like anything else we can over think and focus too much on the feeling itself. This is where we start to get in trouble b/c it leads us down to internalizing, repressing, denial and shame which eventually brings us into depression. I’m going to list some I know of but I ask for more to be added in hopes of helping others. I highly recommend the first thing to do is to in all situations is to acknowledge what your feeling at the moment b/c sometimes we feel hurt but it comes out as Anger. Then to Confront the issue (which may include confronting a person)this needs to be done as soon as the issue arises. Then TALK about it, including your feeling and trust that words have POWER (even if it seems no-one understands or is even listening. Even if it means to talk to yourself, it’s been proven to be therapeutic. So, First let’s do our A,B,C’s; A) Recognize the feeling B) Confront the issue and/or person ASAP (the exception being Anger) C) Talk cry//take a walk // sports//clean// Hit a pillow // write// sing// start a a hobby// work on a hobby// Go to a shooting range //take a self-defense class// listen to a variety of music// observe and enjoy nature// observe human nature//These replies may be of interest you Kudo’s Felicity and yen88u[/quote]
  
  Well to be honest, my vocabulary is quite good. But I am bad at recognising emotions. Often, I won’t give proper answers whenever I’m talking about emotions. Random strings of sounds and onomatopoeias may start coming out of my mouth.
  
  ok so.
  recognise the feeling.
  i have no idea.
  anger, patheticness, and um like, just feeling crap
  confront the issue.
  i don’t want to confront myself really.
  i hate crying. its stupid. and walking. and sports. and cleaning.
  hitting pillows, well that doesnt really help.
  write, um i dont have imagination.
  sing, i cant really sing.
  work on hobby? its almost 2am…
  i would like to go to a shooting range, but im a bit young
  cant stand self defense
  music, eh, that’ll just work up emotions more
  nature eh, cant stand it.
  
  ooh im a retard. i cant stand a lot of things o.O
  
  [quote Mas1st]Why the f***** are you letting this happen? - What do you want - us to feel bad for you?? - Justification from all the people who failed on the same scale as you are about to - make you feel beeter will it? - - Mas[/quote]
  
  i don’t want it to happen, but emotions are nearly impossible control. no i dont really want you to feel bad for me, but i know that people on help.com can help….
  i dont get the last part of your reply…
  but you probably dont know that before i knew you i was a bit depressed…
  
  - written 4 years, 9 months ago – voted for by Felicity

• (1 vote) I am addicted to help.com and I cant get anything done..
  

  yeah help.com is a good addiction
  
  - written 5 years ago – voted for by Plox Nork

• (1 vote) I came across a list of “Official Reasons that the Government is Against Gay Marriage/Gay Rights”.
  

  the main disadvantage i can see of being raised by for example lesbians is:
  
  Child: Mum?
  Mum: What?
  Mum: What?
  
  but thats not all that bad, is it?
  
  - written 5 years, 2 months ago – voted for by mou, Suc XVIII

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  Yeah that, lol
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

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  (that was meant to be a heart not a 3)
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

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  A-men sister! 3
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• I just want to thank Help.commers for being so supportive over the years.
  

  yeah i’m a bit ancient, you would’ve been like new when i was about to leave lol
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• my dad lost his job, because the company he works for, RR Donnelly, is closing down his location.
  

  You’re far too busy learning and having kids. I’m sure he’ll be able to find a job on his own
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

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