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• How many people out there are interested in taxidermy? posted (6 days, 21 hours) ago
  Just wondering :) Seeing what people think about it. Share your views!…

• My oldest kitty is now gone to heaven. posted (2 months) ago
  She’d been ill for a week and hadn’t eaten. She wasn’t even accepting water at the…

• My oldest cat is dying… posted (2 months) ago
  She’s 14 now and is just dying of old age. I’m pretty sure some of her vital organs are …

• I’m an artist trying to survive and I need the general public’s opinion. posted (3 months) ago
  If you guys had some money to throw around, would you rather spend it on customized artistic paintin…

• update on the tv remote control issue! posted (4 months, 2 weeks) ago
  okay so the tv still isn’t working with the remote. the tv turns on by its side buttons, and …

• my remote to my television won’t work. posted (4 months, 2 weeks) ago
  we tried replacing the batteries and still nothing. the last thing i remember was the remote was sit…

• I’m getting really worried. posted (5 months, 1 week) ago
  My boyfriend hurt his shoulder a while ago and it still bothers him. A couple months ago, we were pl…

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katlover1's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I’m turning 22, but I’m not man enough.
  

  i think self confidence and responsibility for one’s own life are what i see when i find a “man.” you can still be shy and be manly. my boyfriend is extremely shy and quiet, but he has confidence in himself. he knows who he is, and knows what he wants. and responsibility is a key thing for me anyway. if you’re dependent on parents still, is seems a little bit boyish. if you can’t drive your own car and be at a time and place you said you would, it seems boyish. so, i hope this helped a little at least.
  
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by collegeboy

• (1 vote) I need help keeping a conversation going with my boyfriend.
  

  i don’t think you should force a conversation. if you’re sitting with him, just enjoy his presence. if you have something to say, say it. let things flow naturally, you don’t need to be talking constantly to enjoy each other.
  
  - written 8 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by xPuppyLove2019x

• (1 vote) I’m a 20 year old gay male and I’ve been
  

  not embarrassing at all. actually, they’ve worked out well for me. the way i see it, computers are just another advantage in today’s world in getting to meet someone you may actually get along with well. maybe the perfect guy for you doesn’t live nearby you know? i say give it a shot. of course, be careful, but definitely give it a try!
  
  - written 10 months, 1 week ago – voted for by sarisa_grimwing

• (1 vote) I’m deathly afraid of bugs.
  

  your doctor said it was OCD? wow, i really don’t agree with that. more just like a natural fear. would explain why the pills don’t work. well, i’d suggest either facing your fear as some have said before, but if you find that thought too repulsive you might just try some basic meditation. start by imagining an unthreatening bug in your mind, maybe a dragonfly or lady bug. stay calm while you picture the bug. once you can do that, imagine it crawling on you, and again you want to make yourself stay calm while imagining this. it may take a while. but once you’ve mastered that step you move on to maybe a more threatening bug like a bee or spider and imagine it and then imagine it crawling on you. so on and so forth but your goal throughout the exercise should be to remain calm when you think of these things. start from step one each time you do it. fears are all in the mind, so if you practice this regularly it will do considerably more than pills can.
  
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago – voted for by Webdezigne

• (1 vote) I have lived life fully and all I don’t have is love and fame.
  

  you can be famous in your own world, and thats the best kind of fame. do something for others, do little things for other people, nice acts. they’ll remember you. and love comes when you learn to sacrifice, compromise, and give love in return in a fully unconditional form.
  
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago – voted for by Richard Cor de Lyon

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• I recently got my first teaching job in a small community.
  

  i think you need to sit down with these “ladies” and have a talk with them. tell them how you’re feeling and you don’t think its at all fair and its hurting you and stressing you. words need to be said with them, don’t let them be so cruel to you.
  - written 5 days, 10 hours ago

• I’ve been talking to a person over the internet
  

  if you haven’t given him your address or phone number (i really hope not) then just stop talking to him. that kind of person needs help, and they can easily control you if you let them. stop talking to them immediately.
  - written 5 days, 18 hours ago

• How many people out there are interested in taxidermy?
  

  lol its okay, no wrong views here, i’m just curious what a random group of people think. kinda like a poll. Personally i have a fascination with dead things so i guess we’re opposite in that aspect
  - written 6 days, 21 hours ago

• Why are people afraid of death?
  

  because you don’t really know what happens would be my guess. no one knows until they’re dead. maybe nothing..maybe you just rot away into the earth. maybe you go to heaven or hell. maybe you reincarnate. i think its just that sense of not knowing what’s going to happen to you.
  - written 6 days, 21 hours ago

• Help i dont know what to do some of me and my friends
  

  they sound like crappy friends to me. telling you where you can and cannot sit? telling you who you can and cannot go to a movie with? dude. find some less commanding friends who don’t treat you like a commodity.
  - written 6 days, 21 hours ago

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