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• What is it like to do a PhD? posted (9 months, 1 week) ago
  I am English literature student and I am writing my masters thesis. I am going to apply for PhD aft…

• How can I find a literary critic’s email address ? posted (9 months, 1 week) ago
  I am conducting my MA thesis and I want to get feedback from the literary critic, Helene Cixous. I …

• How do you remember addresses? posted (10 months) ago
  I want to improve my memory in remembering the addresses( i guess the right english word would be r…

• tomorow is my birthday and I’m having a birth day party for the first time in life but i don’t know how to dance :(((( i grew up in a very posted (2 years, 1 month) ago
  is my birthday and I’m having a birth day party for the first time in life but i don’t …

• i get error “unknown account action” :( when trying to change avatar.what does it mean? posted (2 years, 5 months) ago
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• one of my friend played this for me with Setar ,a Persian musical instrument( never got such a beautiful gift) listen its beautiful music .he has recorded posted (2 years, 5 months) ago
  of my friend played this for me with Setar ,a Persian musical instrument( never got such a beautifu…

• is there a way to save this book on google? posted (2 years, 5 months) ago
  i need to download this book “Comic Women Tragic Men” i found it in Google.here is the…

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Eelham's Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) What do you think about Iran and Iranians?
  

  [quote The Sherlockian]Well, history shows that the Jews were there first, and they never left. Arabs came with the “Muslim Crusades” after the death of Muhammad. Then the Arab population dwindled. The next big Arab migration was after 1924.
  
  The Palestinian Authority is destroying archaeological evidence on the Temple Mount, and the PA minister in charge claims that there is no evidence that Solomon’s Temple ever existed. The Palestinian Arabs also claim that Jesus was a Muslim who was paving the way for Muhammad.
  
  Hamas’ charter calls for the destruction if Israel. They do not want to share the land; they want it all.
  
  Now, the question I have is this: with hundreds of thousands of square miles of land available in the surrounding Arab countries, why are the Arabs calling for the slicing up of tiny Israel to accommodate a Palestinian “state”?
  
  The Palestinian “state”, if you will, is Jordan.
  
  I am sympathetic to the plight of the Palestinian Arabs. They have suffered because of the circumstances of history. But they are not the original possessors of the land: the Jews are.
  
  Let the Muslims have their Mecca, and let the Catholics have their Vatican–but let the Jews have their own Jerusalem![/quote]
  
  Native Americans possessed America originally. right? so can they get together and invade America now, only coz it was their land? does it justify killing people and violence?
  
  - written 9 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by cute.mademoisell

• (1 vote) How can I have self esteem ?
  

  first you should work on your mind and replace negative images of you with positive ones and give yourself support and love. take it slow and try to engage yourself in what you want to accomplish. small successes can bring you self esteem. I have found out that getting support and encouragement from my close friends helps me a lot in improving my self confidence.
  
  - written 10 months ago – voted for by MarieB

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• What is the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen?
  

  [quote beaandbunny05]This was a brilliant idea for a post, especially with everyone being so down lately.
  
  The most beautiful things I’ve experienced:
  When I was younger, I went camping with my sister, her husband, 2 brothers, their girlfriends, and my nephew who was about 2 at the time. He was so tired but he just would not fall asleep. No one could get him to go to bed. He sat on my lap, cuddled right into me, and just stayed there. I asked him if he wanted to lay down or read a story, and he said no, so we just sat there. Within 10 minutes, he was fast asleep. It was incredible how much effort everyone put into getting him to go to bed when all he really wanted was for someone to hold him.
  
  My sister is such a strong woman. She was diagnosed back in February with cancer. I thought for sure that she wouldn’t be around for Christmas. She gave birth to her daughter in March then started chemotherapy. She was allergic to the pain medication they gave her, and she cried all of the time because she was upset about her hair falling out. I thought it was silly for her to be so worried about her hair when her life was in danger, but I listened to her little concerns anyways. In July, she had a brain aneurysm and had to undergo brain surgery. She was in the hospital for a little over 5 weeks. The whole time all I could think about was that my niece and nephew would no longer have their mom. That I wouldn’t have my big sister to call whenever I needed someone to talk to, a shoulder to cry on, a best friend. I’d been calling her since September when she got out of the hospital (she wasn’t up for visitors or I would have gone to see her). Her white blood cell count was 500 (for a normal person it’s between 5,000 and 10,000) so she wasn’t allowed to go anywhere once she got out of the hospital. Every time I called, she was sleeping or really wasn’t up to talking. I called her on Thanksgiving and she talked to me for over an hour. It was magical to hear her talk. She sounded just like she did before she found out she had cancer. She told me she only has 2 treatments left. I’m so happy that I’ll have my sister here for Christmas, and hopefully many more to come.
  
  My husband saying “I love you”. When we first met, I thought there was no way that a guy that amazing could ever even like me. Now, I wake up every morning in his arms. He kisses me, hugs me, and shows me how much he loves me. It’s incredible.[/quote]
  
  you are a lucky person ^^ you feel so much love.
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

• What is the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen?
  

  My little niece and nephew when they laugh and when I hug them so tight that I can feel they are part of my being. the second best a yellow rose garden I once visited when I was a little child. it was so beautiful that I even now I can vividly imagine it.
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

• Being in love with two people at same time :(
  

  I am not really sure about advice but I can invite some friends to help :)
  - written 8 months ago

• Why are women/men attracted to older people?
  

  I think its coz guys in that age are more mature so they probably are more stable in their feelings about some1.
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago

• What is it like to do a PhD?
  

  well I am interested in working as an art teacher. I have always loved painting and I think I am good at it^^ I sold some of my art works in charity events. I am also interested in working as a yoga instructor. I have been doing yoga at home for sometime and I really like it. I enjoy reading books on yoga.
  - written 9 months ago

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