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Maybe it’s not too late…you can still tell her…

I guess that’s right

Give him some time and then if he won’t do anything more than just stare, move on

[quote friendlyheart]well..besides the fact that it hurts you like hell , brings you nowhere and makes you feel like the world ends when you can’t hold them, can’t share with them your emotions, can’t tell them what you think, can’t smile at them, can’t see them smiling back, can’t hear them saying i love you, have to look at them while kissing with someone else, have to fall sleep crying because they are in someone else’s arms..i don’t think it worths
i’ve been there..
it just makes you feel worse and worse each day
accept that they will be happy with someone else and move on dear
sometimes love is letting go.. when you truly love someone you want them to be happy from all your heart even if they are happy with someone else..
but that doesn’t mean you have to get stuck there and not to move on, not to feel ever love for anyone else..
it’s your right, and in the same time responssability to move on and find some new hopes
yeah it hurts still, but it will get better with time..that’s what i’m sure for
you’ll feel that you miss them every minute, than evey hour, every day, every week, month and slowly it gets better
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[quote ChaosZen]Friendlyheart reminded me of personal experience which could possible help you out, though it can be a little painfull.

I once loved a girl who was really nothing more than just a good friend. She was dating another good friend and though their relationship was open and both were ok with me, she did not like me in the same way I liked her. I simply reminded myself that I love her enough to make her happiness a priority and she was happy with Chris, so they both had my full support while I backed off to move on.

Love them enough to wish them happiness with somebody they truly love and like myself, you may find some comfort in that. Then eventually, somebody will come along who loves you as much as you love them.[/quote]

Guys, you’re great, you help me a lot, thank you very much

thank you, ChaosZen

thanks, emi_009, that’s pretty reasonable

you’d better approach her

I mean real love…

The only way to get rid of the fear is to go there, it’ll be over and so will the fear

Kinda, the feeling you have will never leave you and the more you try to make it go away, the more you’ll hurt yourself, so just accept it as it is…There will be someone who will love you as much as you love him. Finally this feeling will fade, it will be replaced by cherished memories that will warm you…You will love again, trust me, missbella

I can’t say if there’s anything here…idk..

You can’t stop loving him, it’s the way true love is… You love somebody unconditionally…I feel the same towards a man…
You can accept the fact that there’s never gonna be anything and go find a guy you can date, you don’t have to feel you’re betraying him, because you two are not like “together”

Thank you guys for your opinions :)

[quote ChaosZen]Anybody can change, but do not expect them to unless only for themselves. If a person changes only for others, they will eventually not be happy with themselves and become a misserable person. Instead, if you want somebody to change, just be patient and see who they become on their own.

Also, if you like a person who is different, encourage them to be themselves and support who they are as well as any changes they make in their lives. Asking them to change only means you only like who they could be or who you think they are, not who they truly are or who they wish to become.[/quote]

Thank you.
And what if I want to change?

Right you are!

I don’t think they won’t pay, now they tell it, because they want you to apologise, but then they’ll pay. I think you should talk to them about it.