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You where on my friends list weren’t you?
What’s new?

You are a private person. So am I. I did send you a friend request 8 months back. You never accepted which is fine. I didn’t lose any sleep. lol

Good to see you again. dear. You have been gone too long. Welcome!

You are gorgeous :-)

black and white?

hey i remember you spirited soul , you are from kent and had some trouble back then…And you are transformed from a girl to a woman..nice

hey i remember you spirited soul , you are from kent and had some trouble back then…And you are transformed from a girl to a woman..nice

happy new year

Hi Flo. I sent you a friend request on Facebook. thanks…. :)

“I would recommend making paragraphs so what u put is easier to read through”

Lol, if only everyone would do this. I’d actually be able to answer every question.

That’s a common complaint these days. :/

Have you tried social groups? http://www.meetup.com is good for finding groups in your surrounding area. They are listed by interest so that you can find other people who have something in common with you to enjoy. If you don’t find one with your interests, you can start your own group. :)

That might be a good way to meet someone. :)

I understand how you feel. It’s terrible to feel lonely. Everyone (or nearly everyone) would like to share time with somebody special. It’s only natural, eh?

I just want you to know that I’m really hoping that the right guy comes along for you soon. Who’s the right guy? The guy who treats you the right way. What way is that? A way that doesn’t make you uncomfortable or unhappy. :)

~ Kitty ~

Hi Flo, just added you. Wonder why your spiritedsoul account doesn’t work? Anywho, great to see you. And I have to add (sorry but I’m a guy) that your new av is your best ever. OK, strike that, it’s your prettiest ever. Maybe it doesn’t capture your personality like that one where you were making the funny face, loved that one, but it really does show how beautiful you are. More importantly, your friends here have gotten to know you as a beautiful person on the inside. Hope all is well or at least tolerable. Good to see you. Like the new user name too, very creative.

I’m so glad to see you. :) Sorry that help.com changed so much and everyone left.

Welcome to my friendship too!

hi there… nice pic… :)

Fine! I’m glad for you.
Thank you for your message.
♡

I think he definitely likes you!

And if you scare him off, there will be others to take his place! ;-)

Good hunting! ;-)

Ha ha–it will be all right! You just have to catch a guy at the right “stage” in his life . . . and you don’t want a guy who’s still far from the “commit” stage!

You’ll do fine! ;-)

hi to you too!

=)

Well, you used to talk about it, when I was “Michael Leibman”. But what I mean is that he was asking “what is Aspergers” and we said some stuff… I didn’t know if he was confused out of lack of understanding or because he was trying to diagnose himself or what. It was yesterday, so still in my mind.

Hey, would you be willing to look at a post about Asperger’s if I find it and send an invite? I’m not sure we were telling him useful information.

Canada and the US so we were really neighbors… :)

Sorry sweetie, I really have to go. I’ll catch you later, k??

Mwwwuah! Take care, Silverse.
Catch you soon. :)

We were in two different countries but we’re living together now. :) :) Life is good on this end. :)

Shout me anytime, sweetie!!

Got to make a phone call. Talk to you later maybe? Ciao girl!! Take care. X :)

He used to be on my friends list but I haven’t seen him on at all in a long time.. so I’m wondering if he might have gotten banned ??? I couldn’t tell you.

If you’re looking for anyone else and need some information about anything at all, don’t hesitate to shout me. :) I don’t know if you remember a certain user called Barely?? We met through this website… and just got married two months ago. :) :)

I miss the old crowd too.. :)

We never talked much but I do remember seeing you around the website a lot.

How’s life treating you nowadays?? :)

I’ve been on this website for so long, it’s part of my daily life, it seems. Although, it has changed a lot over time. Do you see people on here that you used to be friends with?? Many have left or are not as active as they were. There’s a whole different crowd on here now.

Anyway, just wanted to say hi! It’s always nice to see some of the “older users” popping back in every once in a while..

:)

Hi there Spirit! I’ve been on Help forever too. I am known as Marylou. Just wanted to say welcome back and… geezz… you don’t look exactly the same as you used to! lol (If that’s you on that picture.)

Anyway, I hope you are doing very well, my dear. :)

ML

I’m glad to here! Nice!

Don’t stop too early!
If a health insurance (or whoever) pays for it, stay for a longer time. About once a week for somel month, then reduce it slowly …
 
But leave it only if you are deeply CONVINCED that you can handle it by your own.

Thx for your answer.
I wish you the best!

How was your meeting with the psychologist?

Psychoanalysis was invented by Sigmund Freud. Here are some sources:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychoan…
http://www.freudfile.org/psychoanalys…
http://www.apsa.org/About_Psychoanaly…

I was trained in Client-Centered Therapy (also called Person-centered therapy), accompanying my studies in clinical psychology.
 
I’ll appreciate to hear from you after your meeting of tomorrow!

It’s more known in French language, but I just checked it on the English dictionary — it’s known there too. ;-)
Formation = Education

Ms. Helen Neame has an education (formation *lol*) in psychoanalysis. But it doesn’t matter, the description of her sounds really very good!
Anyway, for you the most important will be to feel well and comfortable with her. But be patient, the bond of trust often doesn’t come already with the first session.
I wish you the best for Wednesday and the next meetings!

what do u mean by formation?

this is the therepist im going to see on wed, this goes into detail what experience shes had.
all these type of therapy techniques, makes me confused! lol

http://www.linkedin.com/pub/helen-nea…

i cudnt find the type of therapy she does

To find a therapist in the U.K. (I guess you live there) this could be helpful:
http://www.itsgoodtotalk.org.uk/thera…

Thanks for your shout.
You made the right decision, as I advised you earlier.

I myself got a formation in psychotherapy (Client-Centered Therapy).
There are different types. I would recommend you to look for a therapist who works with either the Client-Centered Therapy after Carl Rogers OR with Behavioral Therapy — but NOT Psychoanalysis after Freud or Jung.

Some good information about the two therapy styles you can find here:
Client-Centered Therapy (also called Person-centered therapy):
· http://psychology.jrank.org/pages/118…
· http://www.minddisorders.com/Ob-Ps/Pe…
Behavioral Therapy (also called Cognitive Behavior Therapy):
· http://psychcentral.com/lib/2007/in-d…
· http://www.articlesbase.com/mental-he…
 
And I think in your special case I would give preference to the Behavioral Therapy. It’s relatively short and problem-oriented.
 
Hope this can help you!

You’re welcome.
I did now the second one too.