superkathry's reply history at Help.com

I know it is hard, you sound very settled and happy to be living in Birmingham.
Where is your mum considering moving to? If you do end up moving abroad, it isn´t all bad and you will soon settle in to your new country. If you do end up going abroad, try to look at it as a great opportunity with plenty of chance to broaden your experience in life and to see and do many things that you cannot get the chance to do in the U.K.

I moved abroad at 21 years old, from the u.K and I have lived in France, Belgium and Spain, where I am still living. I have learn´t french, spanish and have experienced so much of life by living abroad and you can too.

Have you spoken to your mum about your worries? speak to her an d tell her how upset you are, however if it´s definate that she is going to live abroad and that you have to go too, then think of the positive points, it will be like having an adventure! keep in contact with your friends and family, they will come and see you after all everyone likes a cheap holiday!

I hope that some of these comments here have cheered you up a little. I had a look at your photo-album, what a lovley little girl! I hope all your prayers are answered and a solution to your nieces problem is found quickly. I am thinking of you all.

agree with the above comments, why does your wife think you are rich? have you been lying to her?

Unfortuately, you have to keep your thoughts about your friends boyfriend to your self. at the moment her loyalties lie with him, she won´t/cant see what he does wrong, so it´s best to let them get on with it together.

Think before you saying anything to anyone, if you think that person cannot be trusted, don´t say anything that you wouldn´t want to get around.

Chillout is correct, although it seems a really BIG thing to you at the moment, I can assure you that next week your friend and her boyfriend will have moved on to another topic. Keep smiling tomorrow will be a better day.

Yes, you have to tackle these things straight away, or you will keep putting it off, then the pressure builds up, then you get stressed! all unecessary, if you tackle the project straight away. Much better and it´s not constantly playing on your mind that youvé still got to do it.

Try a local citizens advice bureau, they will help you. Local council there is bound to be a building near you where you cna go and have a chat and put your name on the housing list.

Obviously you are feeling uncomfortable with the idea, or you wouldn´t have written on this site. You DO NOT have to do what your “friends” want you to do, in this life you do what YOU want to do. It is a very stupid thing to go shop lifting and after you have done that, what will your friends want you to do next hey? you are an individual! it is easy to follow the crowd in what they do, but it takes a better and a stonger minded person to go their own way and do things how they want to. stand up and do what you want! Stay away from theses so called friends.

Ramadam is a religious festival, celebrated once a year for a whole month, the time of the festival varies every year. I think it is a muslim celebration, but not sure. The people who partake in the festival can only eat/drink after daylight hours. There are lots of other things they cannot do thru-out the festival.

if you are looking on line, then type in the web site for the newspaper an d look in the obituary part, or type in the search facility on their web site.
If you don´t know the web site of the newspaper, but know the name, then in google or dogpile, type in the newspapers name and then type in the person who has died ´s name.

do you want to be with this person nearly all the time? do you get butterflies in your stomach when you think about him? Does he make you laugh and feel happy when you are near him? all of theses things are what people generally feel when they are in love with some-one.

walk in to a room as if you own it! ie walk tall, walk reasonably fast and keep your chin up, most important, is not to look at the floor!

your poor grandparents, they are lucky to have you, i t must be scary and worrying for them.
Why do your parents want to put them in a home?
do your parents have to go and look after your grandparents regularly?

Haha, like the comment from princess sparkle!! that might make them think.

try tipping your key board upside down and tappping it, all the dirt will fall out, then i ususally clean my keyboard and screen with a soft cloth and glassex spray.

are you going thru a rough patch at home? has your marriage lost that sparkle?
If this is the case, don´t look elsewhere, that will only add to your troubles. You need to talk to your husband/wife and try and put some sparkle back into oyur marriage.

what is it you want to know, you haven´t answered the qúestion?