David, i got your shout though it was addressed to someone else’s name. :) Anyway, i quite understand why you want to leave but i also hope that you are coming back when you are done with stuff you think would help you with things. :)
please tell me that you are still coming back to visit… your email didnt come out… mine is lil_bit_shie @ hotmail . com but you have to take the spaces out… please.. write to me… i would love to keep in contact with you… lots of hugs… tammy..
You should just leave it open that way if you ever do want to come back you can.
I hope you are well and stay that way, and maybe you will be back again on day.
thank you…. just by being there for me supporting me, giving me strength is what i need… i will definately let you know what happens… if you read my profile on myspace.. at the top right corner, there are blogs… each one has all the updates that happen… but i will be sure to let you know as well… and thank you again.. lots of hugs.. xoxo
no.. you are not driving me nuts.. but i understand a bit better… its just so hard… even in your case… to have a positive attitude about anything that is happening in our lives… the only positive that i can find in my situation is trying to help others see that they need to act as soon as they notice that they are going through something so rough in their life… and that they arent alone in being abused… thats why when i see a post on here that talks about being abused.. i jump right on it… trying to give my advise… trying to be positive by what has happened to me by helping others… but it saddens me when i cant help myself.. so here we go again… the victim thing… i know… i just dont know how to get out of it… i feel stuck… as for you… if i had an extra heart.. i sure would give it to you… you are a great person and deserve it.. i do believe in being a donor for others when i pass and have signed my license and told my family about it.. i just wish others new how much they could actually help others by doing the same… i wish you soooo much luck and to let you know that you are one brave person with a huge heart of gold… and that should get you far in your search… i hope… lots of hugs for a good friend…
if you want.. go to www.myspace.com/missing_my_children there is a good part of my story there.. also some of the laws that i have already found that have been broken… plus there are blogs there telling what has been happening and such lately… you dont need an account to read it… and thank you.. im always home too.. because of the abuse… i have suffered from what is called a srynx.. or something like that.. its caused by a blunt force trauma to my spine.. which is a seperation of the spinal fluid in a pouch… and painful..
aaww.. you are soooo welcome… as for friends on here or even in my life.. i dont have many… but as you said.. you and a couple of others are people that i really concider to be my friend.. so thank you.. i will certainatly call monday.. and also have a few other calls to make as well.. concerning this.. i will look into finding local offices and such… so thank you sooo much… im glad that even though no one has the real exact answer that will make this all stop… all the advise that i do get gives me alternative places to look and gives me hope.. so god bless you .. your friend always.. tammy.
i have written to the state senate people only to receive a letter stating that i had to find a lawyer… as for having an agency work for me.. i actually had to attend a domestic violence course for the family court.. the instructor is willing to go to court on behalf of me being a vicitm.. however, it has to get to court before she can do anything for me or testify on behalf of what a dv vicitm goes through… and thank you for those websites.. i searched them out and read their information… and have sent emails to them… i will let you know if they pan out.. lots of hugs…
I am sending my Christmas greetings already, just incase I don’t see you here before the big day, I am sure I will but I would rather be safe than sorry!
So….
Hope you have a Fabtastic Christmas and new year!!!
Hello skippi! I hope you had a great day and I wnated to thank u for the shout. Thats wonderful about your friend A University and I appreciate the thoughtfullenss. I’ll remember that!! thanks again have a wonderful night!
hi, im doing fine.. how have you been? havent seen you on in a while.. as for yahoo messenger, yes i have one.. lil_bit_shie is my name on it.. however im always invisible and not on it all the time.. im a user of msn messenger more… if you have that, my name on that is lil_bit_shie(at)hotmail(dot)com
It is entirely up to you if you get rid of your help.com account but you will be missed. Only you know what you use more than others and if you feel the need to come here anymore, I come here now not because I need help but because I enjoy it, Some people don’t have time tocome here or end up being here when they should be doing other stuff, as for me I come here in the evenings as I can’t leave the house then as my kids are in bed so this is time for me to waste however I want, but if you have other things that need to be done then you should do that :)
But maybe think about leaveing the account open so if any time you wish to have a chat or a problem needs fixing you know where tocome :)
Hi Skippi! It’s nice to hear from you. I hope you are doing great :)
1. Real First Name (JoAnn)
2. Where were you born, where do you live now?
(Born-Whitecourt Alberta Canada, Live-Colorado)
3. Explanation of your profile name (JoJo is a nickname someone gave me when I was younger. I loved the name and the person helped me a lot at the time.)
4. Why did you come to help.com (I came to seek help when I was suicidal.)
5. Favorite Color (Teal or any shade of blue)
6. In 5 years, where do you want to be (I want to be alive, working, and finding ways to help young people.)
7. Biggest fear (Myself.)
8. Biggest pet peeve (People with no manners.)
9. Biggest hope (Learning to live a healthy and productive life.)
1. Real First Name
2. Where were you born, where do you live now?
3. Explanation of your profile name. both our first name initials.
4. Why did you come to help.com typed in help and found site
5. Favorite Color? for what? hehe
6. In 5 years, where do you want to be? Alive and healthy
7. Biggest fear. pain and suffering of humanity
8. Biggest pet peeve stupidity
9. Biggest hope no more pain and suffering and the elimination of stupidity
David, everything else is on our personal profile. Glad to know you!
hey there David, i don’t mind answering your questions at all.
1. Real First Name- Jessica, my friends call me Jessie
2. Where were you born, where do you live now?
Stratford ON, Canada, born and raised.
3. Explanation of your profile name
apache tear is a stone said to have proproties to help heal, and grieve, I always thought the name was beautiful, so I used it
4. Why did you come to help.com - I needed help with something, so I googled “help” and I found this sight, i just kind of stuck with it.
5. Favorite Color- Moss green
6. In 5 years, where do you want to be- Hopefully in University earning my PhD in Criminology
7. Biggest fears- Spiders, clowns, and a fear that nobody will love me.
8. Biggest pet peeve- People who think there religion is the almight one.
9. Biggest hope- To be loved unconditionaly.
I hope I helped you learn more about me, please feel free to ask anything else.
apache tear, Jessie
1. Real First Name (Lauren)
2. Where were you born, where do you live now?
(born in oshawa ontario, now live in toronto)
3. Explanation of your profile name (my dad calls me lolo, though i’ not sure why)
4. Why did you come to help.com (i randomly fond it, and boy am i glad that i did!)
5. Favorite Color (the colour of the grass in summer)
6. In 5 years, where do you want to be (i dont really care i just want to be myself)
7. Biggest fear (losing myself)
8. Biggest pet peeve (my screaming 8 year old neighbors)
9. Biggest hope (finding the meaning of life)
1. Real First Name (Mitzy)
2. Where were you born, where do you live now?
(Born- Tullahoma,TN/Live- Tullahoma, TN)
3. Explanation of your profile name (hmm well I like the song Fergalicious by Fergie, so I became Mitzalicious lol)
4. Why did you come to help.com (My sister told me about it so I checked it out, liked it, and stuck around)
5. Favorite Color (Pink, red, & black)
6. In 5 years, where do you want to be (happily married and financially stable)
7. Biggest fear (embarrassment, failure)
8. Biggest pet peeve (being ignored or disrespected)
9. Biggest hope (my kids will always be safe and happy)
1. real first name (pam)
2. where were you born, where do you live now?
(chicago il, rogers arkansas
3. explanation of your profile name (pam first name ark for arkansas and 3 for the number of children i have)
4. why did you come to help.com (i came because my house was about to be repossesed)
5. favorite color (all of them)except avacado green yucky!!
6. in 5 years, where do you want to be (i have no idea)
7. biggest fear (snakes)
8. biggest pet peeve (traffic)i hear that me too
9. biggest hope (hoping you get a new heart)
Winning the lottery would be nice for me, although i would completely settle for just making the bills every month without a problem.
you might be off my friends list for a moment (day or two) i purge it and update it from time to time..no worries.
1. Real First Name Brian
2. Where were you born,Birmingham Al, where do you live now? Cape Coral, Fl.
3. Explanation of your profile name akslogistics was the name of my short-lived company. it still exists, but my ex gf owns it completly now..still like the name though
4. Why did you come to help.com (I came because of depression about my health)same answer for me too
5. Favorite Color (Electric Blue and Burgandy tie)
6. In 5 years, where do you want to be (I want to work with animals (humane society) and be healthy enough to resume my voolenter work)
7. Biggest fear (letting people down)
8. Biggest pet peeve (90% of drivers in the US think they are great drivers vs 15% of drivers are great drivers, and thus keep the other 85% from getting into too many accidents)
9. Biggest hope (That THIS will be the last health issue)
and let me add one
10. your best quality? I can laugh at adversity.