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Sure you can, didn’t i read though you were leaving? people will be lost without you, i can’t anonymously hold up everybody (smile)

well no, quit kicking yourself geez, that is needy behavior - which is not cool - to no one - anyway, sounds like he has made light of it and is not so offended - ok, you still got a chance, but you got quit groveling and wallowing in guilt and shame about yesterday!, CUT IT OUT - move on, So you have a chance to maybe see him again and be on your best behavior. Coherent, cute, smart, worthy to get to know. Hope that is who you really are, or can be. It’s just one time you saw him? you don’t really know if you like him - he could be cute and totally boring … don’t judge so quick or shallow — i wish you well, please come to some sense, being needy and a wet dishcloth you have to wring out to dry, is sooo not coolll….

Well you are a child of the King, highly favored and have more work to do …. Bless you, :)

keep it upbeat, don’t talk about negatives, talk about your future, success, love of country and fellow soldiers willing to serve, what faction of the service you want to be in, that kind of stuff. And be secure in your opinions. How you handle stress levels,

God loves us All, I am glad for the positive in your life right now - always remember, which i know you know, with God it is Always Positive - whatever the situation, it’s not up to us, or the doctors ~ E

ok, this is a lot. I’m sorry,… life sucks sometimes. And then it gets better … you already know you got the good with the bad. I sense you are young, but i also sense you can get through anything - a soldier. Thank you for that too. For real. Listen, you can’t beat a dead horse. Who you married cause you wanted to do the right thing, first love bs, ain’t working out. Ok, next. So far, i’m not believing in her. I recognize tender moments, but it was just that, moments. Even through 6 years of knowing. You loved her cause she was familiar, you two were close in the growing years. Which are still going on. Now she’s living off your benefits and young enough to not be sitting at home faithful. come on, get real. Life is changing every second. Don’t focus on her. Focus on getting home in one piece. Then concentrate on your next battle. Sorry to say this, but DNA test making sure the 2nd child is even yours. Man up. Forget her, drop her like she’s hot. You deserve a real love. For you. Not your paycheck and benes and your puppy love for her. Don’t be used. You’re fighting for your country. Fight for yourself too. Don’t come home crazy. Soldier. by God.

you can’t say anything - that will also get on his nerves - what you should do, is sneak up on him, laying in bed or couch, skimpy outfit or less, with a bowl of peeled fruit - oranges, apple slices, banana, strawberries and a bit of whipped cream, and just feed it to him, one by one. Don’t talk, say nothing. Slowly feed him fruit as he gazes, or not, upon you — remember don’t say anything, don’t laugh making a joke, just sensuous, uplifting fruit - then he either eats it or don’t - lol - that will be an encouraging, non forgetting stress reliever -

that’s a blessing, congratulations family ~

ooo wowww !! boy would i love to see 22 again! ok, can’t - guess i’ll have to live it thru you ~ have a wonderful birthday - and i wish the best for your future …

Araz, i am sorry for your pain, my wish is that you take care of yourself, do not stay depressed, and get better soon, somethings are not meant to be for whatever reason … get well, stand strong, you have things to do in your near future … love and peace ~ E

I’m praying this morning for you too - hold fast, with all you share and care, he will not foresake you — strength in the time of storm, ~ E

i am so sorry you have this dilemma going on, dag that’s what life is. The good mixed totally with the bad and the sad,,, slow down, take deep breaths and get some sleep. There is nothing you can do but comfort your father and stay away from your sister. You and i both know God’s got the answer. Remain your steadfast self and be their support …

yikes, not cool. She’s trying to sabotage you leaving home, man i sure hope you get recruited - any word on that? you gotta get outta there,

Babacup, the documentary Saving Face can be viewed on youtube — please don’t feed Hannibal

I’d like to add i’m over Pakistan allowing women to be tortured with battery acid, thrown in their face, there is a documentary movie Saving Face, and Chinese and Indian baby girls being killed because they’re female …i’ll march