Thepp…..I’m so sad that you closed Social. I was happy there and there are many people who congregate there who ARE more conservative and who ARE more interested in going someplace where they feel like they are “safe.” Is there any chance that you will open it again?
I am sending my Christmas greetings already, just incase I don’t see you here before the big day, I am sure I will but I would rather be safe than sorry!
So….
Hope you have a Fabtastic Christmas and new year!!!
Thepp I noticed your account has been deactivated, so I don’t know if you will ever see this message. Many of us will miss you, and I do hope you come back.
xoxo
I’m sorry to hear you feel that way. The situation really got blown WAY out of proportion. The facts of the matter are that Rich made some inappropriate comments and got overly upset when they were moderated out. As much as he wishes to complain about being moderated, this is our site and we have every right to moderate it as we see fit. His account was only temporarily banned because I had to come on and edit a shout the other admins could not deal with except by wholesale banning the account.
If you would like to leave the site, you are more than welcome to. I can even go the extra step of disabling your current account so that it will slip into history. However, I will not wipe or ban your account because doing so would remove all the past advice you’ve shared and I can’t agree to that.
It isn’t a sudden desire, but yesterdays incidents about rich hills and the antics of the group responsable helps me make up my mind that I dont want to be part of this site any more?
As a general practice, no accounts ever get wiped unless they are in very clear violation of the rules and the loss of the account (posts, replies, etc) would not be detrimental to the site.
Oh, I have a tumor and it’s going to be removed in August, hopefully. Open heart surgery and all that but I should be okay. I’m just 2% nervous about that.
The thing that is frightening me, damn if I don’t need to talk it out, but I cannot do that because I respect the people involved and suppose they want it quiet. No worries, this I can handle as well.
I’d love to keep in touch with you. My email is adrianna.darmen @ gmail.com (obviously without the spaces.)
thanks thepp, that’s so nice of you to say. and thanks again for you contribution to the post, it made ti alot better. it’s ok, ive made alot worse typos in my time.
No, you won’t lose me. Sometimes I bleep out when it gets to much for me but I always come back. I am trying to stay here until I need to leave in August so that I can talk to my friends as much as possible and help as many people as I can. Maybe it’s that irrational part of me that wonders if I’ll be back. But I have faith - I am going to wake up from that surgery and get back to ass kicking in no time at all:)
And until then, I will try not to worry so much about this other issue that’s frightening me. I trust in God, he will make it all well.
My little girl still has her neck - thankful for that, lol. She fell again today (I promise I watch them!) and so I took her to the doc but she’s actually fine and getting better!
Hope you have a good day and if you pray, pray to God for all the Mommies in the world and their children.
Hey Thepp.
I’m always happy to have new friends. That would be cool if you looked me up, and If you ever want to just talk i’m good for that too.
Have a good night
jess
I was such an obediant child! I NEVER sprained ANYTHING!
Shame that you are leaving though. Bugger and all that. But I don’t suppose I really understand you. Is it the daft ones here that bother you or the site as a whole?
The English language should be dammed though I love it to senseless bits. My little girl sprained her neck today and it’s frustrating her. S’pose she might remember this the next time she chooses diving off a counter as a sport. Lol, where do kids get these bright ideas from?
In answer to your question on your post, Yes close to Towyn and Rhyl, about 15 min drive to Rhyl. Colwyb Bay is closer to LLandudno tho, if you know where that is
Haha you mean my volunteer mod star? I have no mod abilities except I can switch to the development site. Not very interesting but I can test new features when Jeff needs me to. :D