Aha..didn’t notice that somebody had read it. Took it down later because I knew I had really lost my marbles, and needed to rethink my rash decision…
But about the 10 minute lapse, it was in the middle of the convo. I told her something that could be interpreted as a compliment, something along the lines of “i think your voice is awesome”, and I honestly only intended to tell her the truth, not hit on her or anything.
And I might have been acting somewhat impatient about a week ago, thanks for the heads up about that.
Well, I certainly learned a lot from this experience so far, if I look at it from your point of view.
Thanks for taking the time to read through my sudden bout of insanity, I really appreciate it!
Hi Shigaku, how are you? I saw your post briefly before you closed it. It said “In fact, just an hour ago, I chatted her up to ask her when we could meet to finish up a music recording we were doing together. She left me there for a 10 minute lapse.”
I think it’s not too bad though, it’s not too long. It’s hard to tell sometimes why someone takes long to respond, as in your other posts. But 10minutes is not long I think.
It’s important to just be patient, all good things take time, even if it is just a chance. You wanna avoid sounding impatient, because that would be a turn off for her, so, just be mature and accept that she may need time. Just look on the bright side, even if she rejects you more, you will learn things about approaching a girl you really like, and it will help you in the future when you meet another nice girl you like. Either way, you can turn this into a victory, even if it is just a small victory, as long as you are patient.
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