Shigaku's shoutbox - Help.com

I hope your heart stops hurting soon. X

Hi Shigaku, how are you? I saw your post briefly before you closed it. It said “In fact, just an hour ago, I chatted her up to ask her when we could meet to finish up a music recording we were doing together. She left me there for a 10 minute lapse.”

I think it’s not too bad though, it’s not too long. It’s hard to tell sometimes why someone takes long to respond, as in your other posts. But 10minutes is not long I think.

It’s important to just be patient, all good things take time, even if it is just a chance. You wanna avoid sounding impatient, because that would be a turn off for her, so, just be mature and accept that she may need time. Just look on the bright side, even if she rejects you more, you will learn things about approaching a girl you really like, and it will help you in the future when you meet another nice girl you like. Either way, you can turn this into a victory, even if it is just a small victory, as long as you are patient.

Hello,

We received your report. However, you didn’t include a link to the post or reply you were reporting so it is hard for us to know what exactly it is you were reporting. Could you please try again, this time with the link to the post or reply attached to your report?

Thanks!

-Puck
Moderator

Happy Holidays!

HEY. YOU. I am proud of you.

Wait I just realized I didn’t see you at your SHS shift because your parents didn’t let you go? What?

I pulled an all nighter due to a sleepover, lugged stuff down for SHS from 8 to 9, haunted house work from 9:30 to 11:30 (sooo fun, but my voice is croaky now), Jazz commitments from a little after 12 to 2:20 or so (performance at 1:15)… I’m sore everywhere. x.x

I didn’t visit any booths. And all I ate was a hot dog. I didn’t go to the courtyard or the cafeteria. Um. Yeah. Too busy to do anything…

Yup yup.

I’m generally really critical of most of the summer reading books we get. =___= Oh well.

Oh, I knew her for like a month and then I think she forgot who I am. XD This was in middle school, I think. We went to Honor Band together and complained about our butts hurting from being seated so much. Good times. She was/is pretty cool.

Oh, am I in the 8:00? I forgot already. I must be. I’m on stage at noon for Jazz and after that I have a haunted house shift. o: harro.

I only just saw your post from yesterday. Today the junior advisor meetings - mine at least - consisted of us splitting into groups and discussing “invisible” people as described by Mawi Asgedom. So for me it was like you were responding directly to that, but I don’t think you guys did that. o:

I’m curious who it was, but I probably don’t know who it was so it’s okay. But I’m very happy for you and it gave me warm fuzzies. Yup.

Why do you feel old?

Get on some form of chat. :D

I know you’re there o:

Hello my friend. I read this blog post written by a very smart man and I think it could help you more than it helped me http://www.raptitude.com/2011/05/proc…

Send a Anti Valentine’s Day Scrap Today

Hope you have a great valentines day ^_^

I don’t think they will. I’m holding onto what little I have left. I’m going to wait till I’m older and see how much the oldschool ones are worth. lol.

I have no idea. They ruined it by coming out with the second set. The original is where it’s at. I used to have binders and binders full of the cards. I had the GameBoy games, movies, everything. lol.

The original pokemon were the best. The best! Pokemon was such a big part of my life growing up. lol

I. Friggin’. Love. Your. Avatar.

Hello,
I received your report about that insulting post and just wanted to let you know that the situation has been dealt with, and that user has been warned for bad behavior. Thank you for reporting, and feel free to do so any time you find something that needs to be looked into by us moderators.
Mitzy (Help.com Moderator)

Hey, hows it goen?

‘Tis good that ye standin’ up fer yesself, Shiggy.

Happy New Year. :) Here’s to a better year.

Happy New Year 2011!!!


Anime Glitter Scraps

By the first sentence, I mean there’s a difference between being attracted to someone and liking him or her as a person.

The other thing is knowing whether or not you actually like her. You’ve complained enough about her personality and tendency to use people and interact with people for the wrong reasons. Is that okay with you? Does she deserve to be loved by you?

And, well, you’ve said that you wish she could see your posts, but you could show her if you really wanted, or paraphrase. I don’t know how much she knows, but often communication helps.

Haha, glad to hear it.

Most of the time, going as friends isn’t platonic. I mean, friends go together when they have the lack of a date in common and just end up dancing around one another on the night of the dance rather than planning it out beforehand. Platonic friends would usually wing it or go as a group. There are exceptions, of course, but that’s usually how I see it.

Thing is, most people with one-sided feelings enjoy spending time with the person they have feelings for. It makes sense: I like this person, therefore I like being around him or her. You are definitely not alone in this.

However, you have to recognize the reasons you do the things you do and not let your judgment cloud over. :/

You also need to figure out what you want. You say you’ve tried walking away before and been stopped, but if that’s what you think is best for your sanity and happiness, do it. If you’re more the type who can love from afar or doesn’t mind just being friends in order to spend time with your love interest without making any romantic advancements, then that works too. Both options have the potential to cause pain and/or increased happiness. Neither is easy, I’m afraid. x_x

As for your appetite, I hope it improves soon. D:

I’m back, if you didn’t know already.

And if you’re ever on GApps (like now or at school), you should add me, because I thought about adding you a long time ago but didn’t know which ID to add because you have one of those more common types of names here.

We kind of stopped talking for a while, but you know I’m here, right?

It is very possible if you really are just friends with a platonic relationship. However, going as friends is usually the result of compromising because of one-sided feelings. Then, it is not likely to go well. Consciously or not, the person with feelings for the other gets his or her hopes up, while the other spends the night sidestepping and avoiding letting him or her on in a social minefield. It detracts from the friend’s enjoyment during the dance and usually leads the other person to feel more dejected when things don’t work out.

Basically, when you’re thinking about going to a dance or anything with someone as friends, you have to know why it is that you want to go with him or her. Like, consider just how platonic your feelings and intentions are.

And I’m going to go have dinner now. XD
Sorry if that wasn’t the answer you were looking for, but that’s my true opinion.

Aw. Try to have some fun; it’s your last winter dance here. :/

I mean this is an action replay of a year ago when you came to Help about her and Frolic and I happened upon your post on the front page. o_o

I happened to log on when it was on the front page.

This is not the first time something like that has happened. Hm…

Anyway.
Jia you, pobrecito.

I think it’ll bother you about the same regardless of whether or not you go to the dance. Besides, it’s a shame to let that ticket go to waste assuming you have it already.

*hugs*

Hey, how are you doing?

eeep. dragonair! :D

Lol it actually turns out that i DO know you. I replied to one of your posts a long long time ago titled “Im going to continue with this even if it hurts me”
Iunno if thats the same girl or not though.

Sorry for the delay - I’m on/off the site. I’ll check it out and get back to you. :) Thanks for the link.

Sheesh! It seems that getting together after finding each other online would be the easy part.

Are you sure that person wasn’t just playing around? Your school can’t be that big. There must be a location where you can actually meet to say ‘hi’.

Really? Wow…that sounds awesome. Why was it trouble though? Did you get to meet finally?

Hey!

How are things going for you? :)

I know what you mean. XD /swt

Uhm, okay. Dunno when though. I will find a way to blow off Nat. o-o

…

Spam.

I.

So.

Bored. o.o

.

.

.