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• i need some boy advice. posted (2 years, 1 month) ago
  o.k so there is this boy who i’ve liked for the past year. but he has been going out with some…

• my friend opened up to me recently. posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  she has been dealing with a lot of issues. i want to help her. she is adopted, her adoptive parents …

• This is complicated but I have a friend who has a lot of troubles in life and I have stood by her and tried my best to help her through it. posted (2 years, 8 months) ago
  Then she asked me to help her kill herself. i told a teacher and she got sent home to get help, she …

• I started cutting myself recently….i’m not really sure why…i don’t have a terrible life, i know people in much worse situations posted (2 years, 8 months) ago
  started cutting myself recently….i’m not really sure why…i don’t have a ter…

• my friend is having a really tough life, nothing goes her way…i’m trying to help her through this but it is getting hard for me, i don’t posted (2 years, 9 months) ago
  friend is having a really tough life, nothing goes her way…i’m trying to help her throu…

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• How do you tell if someone likes you?
  

  yep…every day i decide to do a different thing, i can’t seem to make up my mind. every time i decide that i’m going to get over him he does something to make me like him even more. i don’t want to tell him in case it makes our relationship awkward, we have the most amazing relationship but we are both quite awkward people when it comes to things like this, we haven’t been able to talk about it in person (we kissed last week when we were drunk!).
  
  wackyhayley you are definitely not the only one with love problems, you didn’t sound stuck up or selfish at all, everyone needs help and advice now and then.
  - written 2 years, 1 month ago

• How do you tell if someone likes you?
  

  Dan TL…i’ve told him that i have feelings for him, but since them i’ve begun to like him so much more. i haven’t told him to his face though. he said that we’d ‘think about it again at a later date’ what is that supposed to mean?! it’s hurting me so much that i can’t be with him.(i have a post on it…it’d be great if you could look at it. thanks.)
  
  good luck wackyhayle, let me know how you get on!
  x
  - written 2 years, 1 month ago

• How do you tell if someone likes you?
  

  i know…it will take time, but think, if you don’t do it now and find out in a couple of months time that he does like you, that’s a couple of months wasted that you could have been together. it’s hard, but the worst he can say is that he doesn’t like you, then you’ll be able to get on with being friends and stop wondering…
  - written 2 years, 1 month ago

• How do you tell if someone likes you?
  

  i know exactly how you feel, i’m in practically the same situation, except my boy is going out with someone! take it from me though, this is going to be constantly on your mind, and you will begin to overthink everything he does. you need to tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels about you, tell him also that you don’t want to ruin your friendship. i know how hard it is (i haven’t had the courage to do it) but it’s the only way you’ll ever really know, and you don’t want to spend your whole life wondering what could have been..!
  - written 2 years, 1 month ago

• How do you tell if someone likes you?
  

  it does sound like he is flirting with you, but the only way of really knowing is asking him! do you like him??
  - written 2 years, 1 month ago

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