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• i just brock up with my boyfriend because he is losing
  

  It is quit possible because you are only 15 with a child. It will be hard to find a boyfriend b/c many of them your age do not want to be tied down and still want to hang out with friends, go to parties, get wild and don’t want the responsibility of a child. You say you don’t want him to be responsible for her which is ok, but are you able to go and do things with him or with your friends? You are in a situation where you truly find out who your TRUE friends are. Let me know if I can help. It was a good thing to keep the baby. Oh, by the way, does her father have anything to do with her?
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• i need a little bit of advise as well as help.you see
  

  Let me get this straight: did you try to pay the landlord when the rent was due? Even though it was in his brothers name–did you contact the landlord to pay him? I am renting and there are times my boyfriend will pay the rent (even though he is NOT on the lease) and I give him the money. I will still get in contact with the landlord and get a RECEIPT. Always get RECEIPTS and KEEP for future reference. If your boss said they will help you get another apartment get that in writing and figure out what you have to do and if there is any “catches”. Ask family and friends for help also. Try to pay anything on this court situation as long as they accept some sort of payment, they shouldn’t put you in jail. Let me know how this turns out. Does your community have rental assistance or organizations such as HUD that help you find housing and get cheaper rent? Can you get back on SSI or you want to work on your own now? Just things to help me figure where you may go for help.
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• Twin brothers wife died.
  

  This is such a very sad situation and really don’t know what to say that can help your brother. I have been cheated on and never found out until the other girl was pregnant with my boyfriends child. I do know how it feels to be hurt and losing trust in everyone around you but not like this. Always be there for him and keep him strong and not to lose trust; there is still some GOOD girls left and this may be the Good that comes from every bad situation and there is a reason for everything. Keep your chin up and let me know what happens. If you still need to talk, we are still here to listen.Good Luck, best of wishes for your brother and you and your family, keep that closeness.
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• I need help with my mom.
  

  Believe me, what Diesel1 said is very true. I never got along with my mother when I was a teen. She did not approve of my boyfriend that I had since7th grade all the way til out of school. Life was very very rough and we always fought. Keep to what you know is right and wrong, DO NOT get yourself into something you know is wrong and can not get your way out of. If your boyfriend is not in the ‘BAD’ crowd have her learn to trust him and you. Look at what your mom is feeling and understand her concern at the same time. Today we are like sisters and talk alot and guess what, I am not with that boyfriend and I look back at what I COULD HAVE done and SHOULD HAVE.
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• My friend has a serious financial problems.
  

  Has been to school and getting an education? If so, he may qualify for some grants and scholarships for football. If not, try some side jobs or some odd jobs helping neighbors or others with side work they cannot do themselves. Keep digging into organizations, there is usually some out there people don’t know about and get. Good Luck.
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

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