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• My turn to ask. posted (2 years, 10 months) ago
  Tell me honestly: Am I Earl Hickey? Is karma trying to get me to realize that I have wronged eith…

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• What do you think happens when we die?
  

  I think your soul moves on to the next “thing”. Could be another life with a new purpose. Could be another life with the same purpose but with new faces and circumstances. Could be oneness with the universe. Could be evolution into a new being. Could be anything. Maybe it depends on what you picture in your mind while you are living.
  - written 11 months, 1 week ago

• Hey , I’m Hanna
  

  You have to keep living. I know how painful it is when you love someone and they don’t love you back. Still, you have to move on with your life.
  
  I apologize if these next questions sound patronizing…but do you love yourself? Do you feel like you are not whole unless someone is with you making you feel loved? If that is the case, please consider this: Love starts from within one’s self. Our strength and determination is based on loving ourselves and knowing that we deserve to be happy. That feeling is not something another person can give to us. What I’m trying to say is that loving yourself means knowing you deserve someone who will love you the way you want and need to be loved. It seems your ex-boyfriend is unwilling or unable to give you that love. There is someone in the world who will love you as much as you will love them and eventually you will find each other. In the meantime, you have to move on with your life and leave your ex-boyfriend in the past and out of your thoughts.
  
  Hope this helps.
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• What will happens if i kill myself
  

  I have witnessed the devistation that suicide causes first hand. You don’t only hurt yourself, you hurt all of the people whose lives you have touched. You leave them confused and distraught, searching for answers as to why you are gone and what (or who) caused you to feel the way you feel. It also leave these people questioning their own sense of self. It’s almost like stealing air from them. For a long time, they are in a dazed and disoriented state with little confidence in the decisions they make about their own lives.
  
  Suicide destroys not only your life but the lives of all who care about you. If you feel like there is no one who cares about you…YOU ARE WRONG! Look around you and you will those people. And…even though I am stranger to you…I CARE ABOUT YOU!!!
  
  Please don’t hurt yourself.
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• no one understands what I am going through.
  

  How about your family? Can you reach out to them? Are you able to get a nurse or other health care professional to come to your home? If not…and I hate to say this…have you considered finding an assisted care facility? I’m sorry to suggest it, but that’s a lot to handle on your own. Caring for loved ones with no help is devistating to the care giver. You must remember that you have to live too. I’m not saying abandon him. I am saying give the both of you a chance…him with the best care possible and you with being able to live and make sure he gets that care.
  
  Don’t give up hope. Not sure if you believe, but prayer is comforting and gives hope. I will include you and your husband in my prayers.
  - written 2 years ago

• i’m starting to give up.
  

  Tell him that he’s not just hurting himself. Watching someone who is part of your life slip away is painful. Friendship means that you each care for and respect the other enough to be open and honest. It can’t just be you supporting him and he does nothing or next to nothing because that drains as much life from you as the drugs drain from him.
  - written 2 years ago

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