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• I miss my dad… posted (2 years, 11 months) ago
  I’m not really looking for answers here. I guess I just need to get it out because I’m …

• I need traveling advice. posted (2 years, 12 months) ago
  I am going to be traveling out-of-state next month and I’ll be taking my 21 month old son wit…

• Is anyone here any good with photo shop? posted (3 years) ago
  Hey there, this may sound strange and off the wall, but I have a drawing of a person that I did as …

• Any one happen to know about swimsuit photography from the early 90’s? posted (3 years) ago
  I’m looking for an old swimsuit calendar with a particular photo inside. Can anyone help me? …

• Still looking for that swimsuit calendar! posted (3 years) ago
  Hi, anyone who reads this. I’m looking for a swimsuit calendar from the early 90’s tha…

• I’m desperately looking for an old swimsuit calendar. posted (3 years) ago
  I don’t know the brand but I do know there is a specific photo that I want. Is there anyone wh…

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cassieoklesh's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) Ok, i was just wondering if this would work
  

  Why do you want a baby at 16? I’ll let you know right now that babies are so much more work than you can possibly imagine! They’re not dolls or pets. You can’t feed them a few times a day and play with them whenever you feel like it. It’s a 24 hr a day, 7 days a week commitment for 18 or more years. Don’t even begin to take something like this lightly, you need to wait until you are able to care for and support a child on your own.
  
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago – voted for by DarkSnow, allur24

• (2 votes) Profanity.
  

  Don’t conform to what your friends do if you don’t think it’s right. If you’re not comfortable cursing then don’t. I personally don’t like it either. I don’t want to be around people who swear all the time and I don’t want my son to hear it either. You go ahead and be who you are. This world needs more people who will stand up for themselves and not just fall into the crowd b/c it’s what everybody else is doing. Good for you.
  
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago – voted for by Rosalina, Best of Luck!

• (1 vote) Can anyone help?
  

  I have a cousin that was in the navy. What I can tell you is this. Joining any part of the armed forces is a wonderful and brave thing. However you have to do a lot of thinking before you make a big decision like that. From what I’ve heard it is very, very, very difficult. The training, being away from home, hard core rules and regulations are not for everyone. Just think about whether or not you have the passion and dedication for that. Good luck in making your decision!
  
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago – voted for by meandjensen10

• (1 vote) I hate it when people blame other people (or things) for anything — how do I say that in a positive way?
  

  I understand. It can be frustrating and easier said than done. In that case, the way I would go about it is to try and lead by example. If they see that you take responsibility for your actions they may follow suit. And they may not. Either way people don’t like to be told they are wrong so there is probably no way to actually say it without offending. Example is always good. You can say what “you” would do in their situation. Not tell them what “they” should do. There are leaders and there are followers. Be a leader. But not a bossy one. ;)
  
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago – voted for by myface

• (1 vote) What the hell are other people seeing that I am not?
  

  Lots of times people see things about you that you don’t notice. I would just be glad that they are good things. Not everyone is that lucky to get people telling them about the good qualities b/c lots of times people are so eager to go straight to the negative. Would you rather people point out all your short-comings or tell you how great they think you are. Just do what you do, don’t question it and count all that positive reinforcement as a blessing.
  
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago – voted for by Kitten_Ciao

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• trust?
  

  You have to figure out exactly why you are this way.
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• I really wanna Make my hair lighter…but i cant go to the store tonight.
  

  Just wait until tomorrow. I wouldn’t do it with household items, it could be dangerous.
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• Is there a such thing as a second chance at a first impression?
  

  If you hardly know this girl, how are you falling madly for her? It’s got to be a physical thing and those are fleeting. You need to give yourself time to get to know her. But technically no, you can’t get a second chance at a first impression. What’s done is done. But first impressions are not always the most important ones. If you’ve given a bad first impression, then do your best to make the second impression make up for the first one. She may be the kind of person who dosen’t judge entirely from those dreaded first impressions. Good luck to you.
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• “Doing The Most Good”, so what does it actually look like?
  

  Being kind. It never helped anyone to be hateful. Lots of times if someone is down and out the best thing you can do for them is be kind.
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• should your problem or opinion be given any value or honor, when you are not giving them your identity, and are posting them anonymously.
  

  You’re asking if someone’s problem or opinion should be given honor or value when they post anonymously?
  
  Of course! Very simply: human beings all have need of help sometimes, so if you get the opportunity to help someone, do it and never mind they’re reasons for showing or not showing their identity.
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

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