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• My friend , who has been so sucessful in life, to owning multiple million dollar companys, to be loved by so many,and to have touched so many peoples lives with posted (2 months, 1 week) ago
  friend , who has been so sucessful in life, to owning multiple million dollar companys, to be loved…

• Tough on the heart , I could be losing it, as I have a difficult situation at my house. posted (2 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I am 54 and responsible for our 14 year old son. His Mom is 40, my ex for 5 years has moved back int…

• My beatings will continue, its just a new year , I have the same dilemas I have had for many years now. posted (8 months, 3 weeks) ago
  My ex wife is back and still has drug issues, and now she has lost both her parents and has nowhere …

• I need a new gameplan , my son is 13 and has the potential to do well at anything, posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  he is a golf addict and has been playing for 12 years , he is doing the virtual school program, whic…

• Calling Golf Addicts with insight, Financially embaresed single Dad raisng a 12 year old golf addict needs to acquire a Scotty Cameron putter, California posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  Golf Addicts with insight, Financially embaresed single Dad raisng a 12 year old golf addict needs …

• Thoughts would be appreciated, on all in one computers with touch screen,need a new one for home use and my sons virtual school. posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  Been looking at the Dell in the 700 dollar range.…

• Just another sad song.I am struggling with my mental well being and would value some others thoughts.Long story short I am raisng a 12 yr old golf junkie posted (1 year, 11 months) ago
  another sad song.I am struggling with my mental well being and would value some others thoughts.Lon…

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RC's Top (4) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) …
  

  Thats why I visit here,for the intelligent caring folks who make the time to reply.
  Awesome replies, and Sav a naw you are quite intelligent as well, maybe from another world but you and I struggle with similar thoughts,as I also think whats the point of accomplishing anything as we all meet at the same destination.
  Its difficult at times but the old saying of enjoy the journey and don’t worry about the destination helps me through.I hope you realize how you are your folks greatest blessing,and they are quite proud of you, and can use your help to ease their burdens with life. And the bottem line is life goes on, with us or without, I hope you find your dreams, as they will never find you, you have to make them happen. I can tell you can acheive anything you set your mind to, so have fun with life, keep sharing your smile, making others day a little briter, and low and behold yours will shine.
  God Bless and may the force be with us all.
  
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by TripleTT

• (1 vote) Why are you in help.com?
  

  One sad day I typed in help ,and low in behold,theres a help.com.I was lost and was looking for any solutions to my troubles, I found some very intelligent folks who replied, and I was touched for there kindness and valued there thoughts. Not a regular, but like to check in at times.Excuse me for some of my replies as I do go straight to the bottem line and skipp all the fluff, so I most likely have hurt some feelings,but the powers to be haven’t kicked me out yet.YEA
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by wretched

• (1 vote) what can i do about a young man who is 19 years old and he seems withdrawn from people.
  

  Lots of folks use drugs /alcohol as an escape of reality,they have found out how hard this world is,lots of emotions to overwhelm oneself.Hopefully its just a phase
  to overcome,do what you can to keep him involved in personal responsibilitys,it makes one feel good to accomplish something and be of help to you.Be honest of your concearns,I would even show him this site,to express your sincere worry for his wellbeing.But there are lots of good folks here,with great insights,it really has helped me through some difficult times,and thats why i still pop in.Bottem line is only he can decide,and you have to deal with his choices,as you will worry yourself sick.Don’t let him ruin your day,, protect your valubles,, and keep on showing him the love.Family is forever.God Bless
  
  - written 2 years, 5 months ago – voted for by brendaann

• (1 vote) What’s the best way to get out of a traffic ticket (besides not breaking the law in the first place, duh)?
  

  paying the fine is one thing..avoiding the points on your license is another,not sure if its been corrected but you use to be able to avoid them by paying a little more than the fine,that would create a situation where the collecting agency would have to send you a check for the overpayment amount,,the trick is to throw that away,,untill it was cashed the system would not close the transaction which would
  not report the points to the state,,,worked for me,,a couple of times,but shhhh its a secret.
  
  - written 3 years, 5 months ago – voted for by Dr. Ralph

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• Albert.
  

  Thanx, made me laugh,and I need to laugh
  - written 2 weeks, 2 days ago

• Help please ,, i am 19 and my gf is 14 .
  

  Stay in school,oh its to late your 19,go back to school,get a fake id.
  You have not learned a crucial lifeskill, You are responsible for your choices,
  and there are no good consequences from even hanging out with a 14 year old.
  Wake up, your grown, don’t make a choice that could affect the rest of your life.
  Much to mention some of your best days in jail.
  So carry on Yad Vok , Ha know what that means(young,dum and full of cum).
  - written 2 weeks, 2 days ago

• How do you get over a bad childhood?
  

  Firstly I would bet your folks consider you there greatest blessing in their lives.
  And it can be unfortunate the surrounding we are brought up in,creating who we are, as life can be overwhelming at times, on parents/kids, as they really want the best for you. Being 19 it can be said you are grown and now responsible for your own choices, and consequences,It is a challenge to just maintain the basics we all rely on.Like tv,computer,car,gas,food and everything else.So your running late on choosing your path,and sounds like you live at home,be Thankful of that.Help your folks all you can with what you can,share with them your life,thoughts of your future,engage and no more excuses,as its up to You, and I would bet your folks will do all possible to help,as they see you putting forth the effort,towards your goals. So as far as being withdrawn,like I read above, start living,engageing, have some fun with that,as everyone has a story, and they are all worth the effort.
  Hope all works out, as your dreams will never come to you, You have to go get them.
  May the force be with us all.Peace out!
  - written 2 weeks, 2 days ago

• This
  

  No I’m not right very often,And I just pass through so often,This is a good place to express yourself,most folks here offer sound advice,some very smart people, and as anywhere you also have the idiots to filter through,your country house is always with you, and your book is a great idea, even if it takes a lifetime to complete.
  I wish you the best, as we all hate this world at times, but it is how we face our challenges that make us strong.,its a great world to explore, and people are worth the effort of getting to know.In person not just computer world, Head up,Share your smile and have a great day as only you can make it great.
  - written 2 weeks, 3 days ago

• This
  

  Sorry but I have no funds to share, I hope the best for you, And I hope you find your way, in spite of all your challenges, I learned along time ago excuses are
  a weak way of expression and only drag one down further. You being abused by your folks is sad, and I bet there was a time you were their greatest blessing, and I hope you can see that,They love you and family is most important,I hope things work out,Always remember your dreams will never come to you, You have to work hard and go after them,So welcome to Help.com, there are some really smart folks who pass through and offer there wisdom here.And maybe you can be helpful to others as well.
  May the force be with You.
  - written 2 weeks, 3 days ago

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