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Ah, no longer words of the wise, but snores of the wise.

[quote cham]This may sound unpopular to those who don’t believe, but let me just remind Christians that there is something like spiritual warfare. We are taught in the Bible that we who have accepted Christ do no belong to this world and will be opposed by it. In fact we are told that the world hates those who walk in the light. When I say world I don’t literally mean earth, I mean the sentimental and spiritual atmosphere of the people on earth.[/quote]

According to that statement, which don’t know how you can take that any other way than literally since it is clearly stating “the world”, we are all evil or tainted since we do not follow the light. According to that, no matter how many good deeds we do or how many lives we save, we are already condemned.

You’re not horrible, most of us have been in the same boat you’re in. We were single, someone asked us out, and we thought “Why the hell not? I’ll give em a chance.” Jus brake up with her bro. Yeah, it’s gonna suck for her, but it would be douche move to trail her along n have her think there’s somethin there. It’s better for both of ya if you just cut it off now before it goes on much longer. You aren’t horrible unless ya keep on goin.

What is it you two argue about exactly? Is he defending her? If so about what? What is it that bother you the most about her?

If I were you, I’d jus try one of the activities, even if you’re about to beat yourself with a baseball bat 5 mins in. You never know who you can meet at things like those. It might be worth it, n ya won’t know till ya try. You’re also pretty young, n have a ton of years ahead of ya, n alot of changes comin up pretty soon. This not the best point of your life, tons of better stuff is around the corner, so don’t draw the line jus yet!

Great advice. You have nothing to lose by telling her again. Make it clear, throw it out there so it can’t be ignored, and have her act. Either way it works out, you won’t have to worry about it anymore. You’ll have that closure you obviously need.

[quote jwinchell8]Killing yourself is never the answer. Trust me I’ve been there, both thinking of it myself and losing friends to it. First I would say to tell your family how they are making you feel. If that doesn’t get them to stop you might want to take your moms advice and move out, not for her for yourself. It is not a healthy environment for you to live in. They seem to be destroying your self-esteem. Don’t feel bad because you are different from your family. From what you’ve told us I would want to be different from them too. Hang in there and remember that there are always brighter days ahead. :)[/quote]

Perfect advice.

[quote littlenick][quote NotYouButMyself]Stay away. Ex’s are ex’s for a reason. They’re gone, keep it that way, and you’ll never regret it. Promise.

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Personal Experience[/quote]

Listen to the voice of experience![/quote]

Listen to Littlenick! He’s the wisest of em all!

Well, since you’re obviously ignorin that last question, I’ll jus say it, you aren’t worthless. Why don’t they work? Different personalities? Boring activities? What’s up?

Stay away. Ex’s are ex’s for a reason. They’re gone, keep it that way, and you’ll never regret it. Promise.

Sources:
Personal Experience

There is NOTHIN wrong with that, hell, I thought parents were suppose to encourage that. Ya should see if there are any school activities you could join up in. That would give ya people to talk to. Jobs are social heavens. Ya meet people from all around your town. And, don’t think I didn’t catch that you didn’t answer the last question. :)

Hm. How are you different from your family? Is your school small? Are there any community activities that you could go n meet some new people? And last but not least, you don’t believe your mom do you?

A good start is not doing it, and telling us why you feel this way. The next step is for us all to solve this problem, and lastly, you get off feeling 10x better about yourself. Let’s start with step 1.

As long as it brings out my butt n draws attention to my hips I’d say I’ve got it made ;)

Not yours, just logic in general. Ya know, like, you have to be pregnant to have a baby. Unless you adopt, or have that whole thing where you pay someone else to have your baby for you.